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What should i do…?

There is girl who has same thoughts, interests, food tastes, mostly everything matches with my taste. After knowing that we moved a step lets call it love, we planning to take further stage that’s marriage but her but their caste is different i dont have any caste feeling either she too, but her parents do have i think so but in their family have very good opinion on me… she is from village so their neighbours watching their activities and her relatives as well.
So she is saying that to me you can’t move further if my family not accept so lets stop you here itself But she will not happy without me, i don’t want to inform their family directly about us and relationship. I think to ask their family without saying anything asking them for our marriage like arranged marriage. And i do have good job and handsome pay as well. So that i can save good opinion in thier family on her

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Nokia TV @sita_ram

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First of all make 100% sure that the girl will stay with you. If at all you try to marry her without letting her parents know ( run away from houses ). She should stand strong and say that, yes i love this guy and i will be with him. If you this clarity from that girl you can proceed further dude

sree @srees100

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I have clarity and she do have as well. My parents anyway accept my opinion. But we should not hur lt her family for our happiness. Bcz they have some hopes on her and good opinion on her i cannot proceed by letting down of such opinion. As you said we can go like that but i cant give her parents affection at any cost

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Anonymous
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Thank god you atleast know that it wrong…
Today’s youngsters only know how to leave from problem.
And this too if no one is agree for it lets run away(they all just influence by movie)

Com’on we need those close people who can celebrate our good moments and support as on down phase…

You can try a better conversations with her parents and try to be ready to them that you can complete all their demands and believe them you will always keep her happy…

I hope your journey gets successful
Best wishes ✨

sree @srees100

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Thanks buddy… i planning to ask their parents directly without saying that we. Are in relationship of love. So i can protect her good impression in their family… But i don’t know what to if their parents stick on caste.?

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sree @srees100

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Thanks buddy… as i know i think they do have good impression on me

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