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What should I chose ?
Emotions or Self Respect?
Mind says choose self respect whereas heart says go with emotionsโ€ฆbut I donโ€™t want my heart to be broken again but I seriously donโ€™t wanna lose himโ€ฆ!

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Anonymous
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Dear please choose self respect. I know itโ€™s very difficult to choose. But you should love yourself first. And the right partner never says you to compromise with your self respect. If anyone says you to compromise then he/she is not caring for you and not the perfect for you. Everyone should give respect to each other in all aspects

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Anonymous
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Ohkโ€ฆ thanks

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@turnthepaiges
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Hi, Iโ€™m not really sure what your situation is like for you. I can only speak about my own experiences that have happened to me. I was seeing a guy that I thought was seriously the one for me, but time and time again he proved to be a toxic person. I was cheated on, lied too, he hit me a couple of times. Just all around not the person I should be with, but I kept going back every time because I went with my heart thinking he would change. I finally had the last straw and decided to be happy for MYSELF. I needed to put myself first and make myself happy for once. I donโ€™t regret that decision Iโ€™ve made.
Iโ€™m not really sure if I even helped you but I hope I did. Whatever decision you do make, please keep your happiness in mind.

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Anonymous
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Yeahโ€ฆ thanks

@ankit007
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Self respect man cz emotions can fool uโ€ฆbut u hv got a lifeโ€ฆmany will come and goโ€ฆ but once u lose ur self respect there is no coming back

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Anonymous
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Yeah

Dee @dewa

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Please choose self respect wouldnโ€™t ever regret in your life loving some1 is good no harm in it
But if you put yourself in this kind of questions then itโ€™s of no use

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@oyechill
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time and again , always and always chose self respect ๐Ÿ’™ no matter how much it hurts , always chose self respect .
there will always be this feeling where you go likeโ€ฆ yaaar what if he understands and what if sudhar jae and what if ye what if woโ€ฆ hota kuch nahi hai bachey

at times we go likeโ€ฆ its okay i will adjust a lil bit coz we love them but///โ€ฆ nah .
hereโ€™s me with an experience , losing my self respect when it came to my love and my friends , both . if i regret anything, itโ€™s just me chosing love or friends over my self respect ( lol i didnt even know what self respect actually meant till i got mine )

and when it comes to love, someone who respects you , your self respect and tries to change the toxic traits of theirs if they know it hurts you , they would do it , dont you think ?
how do we clap hands ? we need both the hands forward to do that right ? ek haath hawaa mei rakhne se clap nhi ho jata, the other hand has to come there as well โ€ฆ to no matter how many efforts you put , how much you struggle , if their actions dont show that they are doing something bout it, please let go โ€ฆ

always remember this :

choose the peace of your soul than your heart :) when thereโ€™s no peace, love can never find its way . yea ik he makes you happy , but he makes you cry too โ€ฆ so dontโ€ฆ

this is out of my experience , time and again life proved this to me โ€ฆ someone who loves you, would give you peace rather than taking it away ๐Ÿ’™

@lovee
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Ur message is so powerfulโ€ฆ thankyou for motivating this person

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@oyechill
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awww you made my day tbh ๐Ÿ’™ thankyou ๐Ÿ’™ keep smiling oye

@lovee
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And ur msg made my day.
Thankyou
Its nice to read such good messages โ˜บ

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@oyechill
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awww ๐Ÿ’™lots of love yaaaar , have your breakfast if you havent yet had it ๐Ÿ’™ say cheeese hehe

@lovee
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Ohh man ur tag name really suits uh.
Can we connect somehow bcz i really wanna talk to this chill person

Profile picture for Now&Me member @oyechill
@oyechill
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awwwwww this made my day (part 2) heheh

i aint that chill mostly โ€ฆ kabhi ho jata hai bas hehe

but yea sureโ€ฆinsta ?

@lovee
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Sure man
Can uh share ur insta id
And like after 5 mins uh can delete the msg if uh want to

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@oyechill
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oye_chill

@lovee
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The frog guy?

Profile picture for Now&Me member @oyechill
@oyechill
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Yaasssss

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Anonymous
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This was just very powerful inspiringโ€ฆ thanks a lotโ€ฆ๐Ÿ˜„

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Anonymous
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It just made my dayโ€ฆ
I was on verge of choosing himโ€ฆbut now Iโ€™ll think thousands times before taking any descision ๐Ÿ˜„

Profile picture for Now&Me member @oyechill
@oyechill
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Awwwww you got THIS too donโ€™t worry ๐Ÿ’™

Profile picture for Now&Me member @oyechill
@oyechill
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At the endโ€ฆ youโ€™re losing your sleep and peace of mind and unko Dekho maze mei hain ya to probably ghode bechke so rhe

@adi007
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will say you onething choose self respect if you choose emotion then you will surely loose himโ€ฆ saying this because of experience

Sanket @sanket

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Chose whatโ€™s more right, it is a dilemma. Select the one which can solve issues, the decision which will be effective in a long run.

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