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Anonymous

What should I chose ?
Emotions or Self Respect?
Mind says choose self respect whereas heart says go with emotions…but I don’t want my heart to be broken again but I seriously don’t wanna lose him…!

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Anonymous

Dear please choose self respect. I know it’s very difficult to choose. But you should love yourself first. And the right partner never says you to compromise with your self respect. If anyone says you to compromise then he/she is not caring for you and not the perfect for you. Everyone should give respect to each other in all aspects

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Anonymous

Ohk… thanks

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@turnthepaiges

Hi, I’m not really sure what your situation is like for you. I can only speak about my own experiences that have happened to me. I was seeing a guy that I thought was seriously the one for me, but time and time again he proved to be a toxic person. I was cheated on, lied too, he hit me a couple of times. Just all around not the person I should be with, but I kept going back every time because I went with my heart thinking he would change. I finally had the last straw and decided to be happy for MYSELF. I needed to put myself first and make myself happy for once. I don’t regret that decision I’ve made.
I’m not really sure if I even helped you but I hope I did. Whatever decision you do make, please keep your happiness in mind.

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Anonymous

Yeah… thanks

@ankit007

Self respect man cz emotions can fool u…but u hv got a life…many will come and go… but once u lose ur self respect there is no coming back

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Anonymous

Yeah

Dee @dewa

Please choose self respect wouldn’t ever regret in your life loving some1 is good no harm in it
But if you put yourself in this kind of questions then it’s of no use

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@oyechill

time and again , always and always chose self respect 💙 no matter how much it hurts , always chose self respect .
there will always be this feeling where you go like… yaaar what if he understands and what if sudhar jae and what if ye what if wo… hota kuch nahi hai bachey

at times we go like… its okay i will adjust a lil bit coz we love them but///… nah .
here’s me with an experience , losing my self respect when it came to my love and my friends , both . if i regret anything, it’s just me chosing love or friends over my self respect ( lol i didnt even know what self respect actually meant till i got mine )

and when it comes to love, someone who respects you , your self respect and tries to change the toxic traits of theirs if they know it hurts you , they would do it , dont you think ?
how do we clap hands ? we need both the hands forward to do that right ? ek haath hawaa mei rakhne se clap nhi ho jata, the other hand has to come there as well … to no matter how many efforts you put , how much you struggle , if their actions dont show that they are doing something bout it, please let go …

always remember this :

choose the peace of your soul than your heart :) when there’s no peace, love can never find its way . yea ik he makes you happy , but he makes you cry too … so dont…

this is out of my experience , time and again life proved this to me … someone who loves you, would give you peace rather than taking it away 💙

@lovee

Ur message is so powerful… thankyou for motivating this person

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@oyechill

awww you made my day tbh 💙 thankyou 💙 keep smiling oye

@lovee

And ur msg made my day.
Thankyou
Its nice to read such good messages ☺

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@oyechill

awww 💙lots of love yaaaar , have your breakfast if you havent yet had it 💙 say cheeese hehe

@lovee

Ohh man ur tag name really suits uh.
Can we connect somehow bcz i really wanna talk to this chill person

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@oyechill

awwwwww this made my day (part 2) heheh

i aint that chill mostly … kabhi ho jata hai bas hehe

but yea sure…insta ?

@lovee

Sure man
Can uh share ur insta id
And like after 5 mins uh can delete the msg if uh want to

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@oyechill

oye_chill

@lovee

The frog guy?

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@oyechill

Yaasssss

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Anonymous

This was just very powerful inspiring… thanks a lot…😄

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Anonymous

It just made my day…
I was on verge of choosing him…but now I’ll think thousands times before taking any descision 😄

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@oyechill

Awwwww you got THIS too don’t worry 💙

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@oyechill

At the end… you’re losing your sleep and peace of mind and unko Dekho maze mei hain ya to probably ghode bechke so rhe

@adi007

will say you onething choose self respect if you choose emotion then you will surely loose him… saying this because of experience

Sanket @sanket

Chose what’s more right, it is a dilemma. Select the one which can solve issues, the decision which will be effective in a long run.

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