What should I chose ?
Emotions or Self Respect?
Mind says choose self respect whereas heart says go with emotionsβ¦but I donβt want my heart to be broken again but I seriously donβt wanna lose himβ¦!
Dear please choose self respect. I know itβs very difficult to choose. But you should love yourself first. And the right partner never says you to compromise with your self respect. If anyone says you to compromise then he/she is not caring for you and not the perfect for you. Everyone should give respect to each other in all aspects
Ohk⦠thanks
Hi, Iβm not really sure what your situation is like for you. I can only speak about my own experiences that have happened to me. I was seeing a guy that I thought was seriously the one for me, but time and time again he proved to be a toxic person. I was cheated on, lied too, he hit me a couple of times. Just all around not the person I should be with, but I kept going back every time because I went with my heart thinking he would change. I finally had the last straw and decided to be happy for MYSELF. I needed to put myself first and make myself happy for once. I donβt regret that decision Iβve made.
Iβm not really sure if I even helped you but I hope I did. Whatever decision you do make, please keep your happiness in mind.
Yeah⦠thanks
Self respect man cz emotions can fool uβ¦but u hv got a lifeβ¦many will come and goβ¦ but once u lose ur self respect there is no coming back
Yeah
Dee @dewa
Please choose self respect wouldnβt ever regret in your life loving some1 is good no harm in it
But if you put yourself in this kind of questions then itβs of no use
time and again , always and always chose self respect π no matter how much it hurts , always chose self respect .
there will always be this feeling where you go like⦠yaaar what if he understands and what if sudhar jae and what if ye what if wo⦠hota kuch nahi hai bachey
at times we go like⦠its okay i will adjust a lil bit coz we love them but///⦠nah .
hereβs me with an experience , losing my self respect when it came to my love and my friends , both . if i regret anything, itβs just me chosing love or friends over my self respect ( lol i didnt even know what self respect actually meant till i got mine )
and when it comes to love, someone who respects you , your self respect and tries to change the toxic traits of theirs if they know it hurts you , they would do it , dont you think ?
how do we clap hands ? we need both the hands forward to do that right ? ek haath hawaa mei rakhne se clap nhi ho jata, the other hand has to come there as well β¦ to no matter how many efforts you put , how much you struggle , if their actions dont show that they are doing something bout it, please let go β¦
always remember this :
choose the peace of your soul than your heart :) when thereβs no peace, love can never find its way . yea ik he makes you happy , but he makes you cry too β¦ so dontβ¦
this is out of my experience , time and again life proved this to me β¦ someone who loves you, would give you peace rather than taking it away π
Ur message is so powerful⦠thankyou for motivating this person
awww you made my day tbh π thankyou π keep smiling oye
And ur msg made my day.
Thankyou
Its nice to read such good messages βΊ
awww πlots of love yaaaar , have your breakfast if you havent yet had it π say cheeese hehe
Ohh man ur tag name really suits uh.
Can we connect somehow bcz i really wanna talk to this chill person
awwwwww this made my day (part 2) heheh
i aint that chill mostly β¦ kabhi ho jata hai bas hehe
but yea sureβ¦insta ?
Sure man
Can uh share ur insta id
And like after 5 mins uh can delete the msg if uh want to
oye_chill
The frog guy?
Yaasssss
This was just very powerful inspiringβ¦ thanks a lotβ¦π
It just made my dayβ¦
I was on verge of choosing himβ¦but now Iβll think thousands times before taking any descision π
Awwwww you got THIS too donβt worry π
At the endβ¦ youβre losing your sleep and peace of mind and unko Dekho maze mei hain ya to probably ghode bechke so rhe
will say you onething choose self respect if you choose emotion then you will surely loose him⦠saying this because of experience
Sanket @sanket
Chose whatβs more right, it is a dilemma. Select the one which can solve issues, the decision which will be effective in a long run.