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@shithappens

What makes a guy β€œfall out of love”?

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Dhadkan @angel14

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Even I have the same question πŸ˜‚
Some one plsss answer πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™

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@shithappens
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πŸ˜…πŸ˜‚

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Dhadkan @angel14

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This is really needed πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ€¦πŸ€¦
Who says girls r hard to understand man πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

@strugglesome
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falling out of love isn’t typically the problem, hes probably just going through a rough patch and needs to be alone or maybe he feels undesired or unfulfilled in some parts of yalls life. love is a blanket term for a lot of things, so maybe hes unhappy, maybe he feels unfulfilled, maybe something happened and he needs something you cant provide. stuff happens, you gotta ask him what his reasoning is, everybody’s different

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@shithappens
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I don’t have the courage to ask πŸ’”

@strugglesome
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if you don’t have the courage, you could try what every guy tries, a lil tactic called β€œdance around the problem until they get” say little things as to nudge him to answering the question without being fully upfront.
if y’all are still together you could ask β€œhow do i make you feel?” β€œdo you think there’s anything i could do better with/for you?”
if y’all aren’t together you could ask β€œhow was our relationship in your opinion?” or β€œif i were to get into another relationship, what do you think i could work on in order to maintain a healthy relationship?”
if neither of those work you’re gonna have to straight up ask and be like β€œhave you fallen out of love with me?” or β€œwhy do you say you’ve fallen out of love with me?”
ik you have it in you, you most likely just don’t want to hear the answer but its much better to say aye eff it and ask lol. you only have one life and you want to feel it with as much happiness as you can, and an easy way to get that happiness is to ensure that you don’t have to question a lot of things especially when it comes to relationships, you’ve got it tho, seek your answers and don’t be afraid of them

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@shithappens
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Thank you for your words of encouragement. I think I’ll try your advice, dance around the problem until I know the reason. Anyways, I really do appreciate your advice. God bless

@strugglesome
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always happy to help lol, you got it.

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