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What kind of person is my boyfriend if he said to me that all men are cheating and that Beauty Expires and a young girl will always be more attractive.I said that I dont think so and he said that yes,maybe not all men cheat then because of values(he kinda agree with me)byt he said values not because of love ā€¦ans he said but to every men give him a woman and if he is sure that no one would ever find out that he will sleep with her.After that i showed him a picture with Jessica Alba and I told him that not all woman on their 40 are not attractive and she said I see but look at her when she was youg,she was better and now she is expired.I mean he called her Expired.And after he told me a new girl in intriguing cause a man wants to know will she give him herself or no.After that I told him that I feel like he will do this and he said that no,of course no Im just honest and tell you how men think.I felt offended.After he told me he would never cheat but I felt that something is wrong.Few months had gone after this incident and I still feel that something about his way to think and express this to me is not right ā€¦does this mean that he will say that I am expired too when I get older?is it worth to trust him that he just said his opinion and that he would never cheat ?but why then he said that all men would cheat with a young girl if no one would find out?Am I right or over reacting?What is your opinion?šŸ˜³

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Omg leave him sis. I promise you, there are better men out there who will value you for you. I just donā€™t want you to regret in the future incase he does something. Youā€™ll regret not leaving him the moment he literally told you that heā€™s capable of cheating or being attracted to another women. And he also framed it in a way that does not put the blame on him. ā€œIts the nature of menā€ or ā€œI couldnt help it, thatā€™s just how men thinkā€. Do you really want to be with a man this disrespectful? Or a man who focuses more on outer beauty? Leave him sis you deserve better. I promise there are better men out there.

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On behalf of all the good and decent guys, please slap him 2-3 times. Who the hell gave that idiot right to tarnish our image? Iā€™m guessing heā€™s not very much mature yet to know what takes to build a relationship. I personally had few opportunities till now where I couldā€™ve gone to date and pursue things further. But I never did any of those while in a relation. I always had the mindset that this is my girl and Iā€™ve to take care of her at all times,never to do or treat her in anyway intentionally which will hurt her. And seriously what the hell is the obsession with young girl- I guess he doesnā€™t know the happiness of being intimate with your favorite person, the laughs and pranks on each otherā€¦oh the heavens

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