What is something you learnt from someone on now and me that has stuck with you?

I agree. I have learnt how to express myself a little bit better too

Enlightened as bugs encircling a light bulb wow😭

One time, I was having a full on existential crisis and this person I talked with on the internet for no less than five minutes told me, "Nah, you are what you want to be." and boom, your boi was enlightened as bugs encircling a lightbulb.

Now&Me Thinks

I am married for 8 months now. And I don't feel any chemistry with my husband. We are rarely intimate with each other and I feel so bored. I feel attracted to other people and feel guilty about it. But I have spoken to my husband as well , to which he accuses me saying what have you done to improve our chemistry or sexual life. I feel hurt and scared  thinking what future might look like with him. He is always talking to his mom about every minor detail - starting from  office meetings to what he had for dinner. I feel irritated and bad that he is such a mamma's boy with no personality whatsoever. 

When we were dating , he didn't portray this side of him. He was fun, sweet and caring. Now he's just boring and taken me for granted. 

What do I do?

Relationships

I am quite firm in my position that romance need not be my goal in life. 

-Anne, Anne with an 'E' (2019) 

Movies

I feel so sad! I dont know whAt to do! I have tried to do my best to make my inlaws happy. But they just lie to me. I feel like i am going to end my life. 

Depression

I have an emotionally and verbally abusive husband . We have lot of animosity between us . He is very controlling and disrepectul . He is also very untrusting and always doubts me . He is socially reclusive and awkward and a loner too. He has zero friends and is unable to form any friendships or value any relationship. He doesnot even want me to form any friendships and his unsocial nature makes him unpopular in any circle we move around in . Because of him , i also dont have much of a social circle and it is so isolating for me . He is not much of a companion or partner to me either . I feel so suffocated in this marriage . 
He is not my equal in anything . Be it social nature, intelligence, emotional IQ , personality or smartness , i know that i am much better than him . But all my talents and qualities go down the drain because of the person i married. I really badly want out of this situation . I am financially dependent on him and i have a daughter to think of too. 
I dont know what to do here. Anybody has any word of advice for me? 

Emotional Abuse

Like how should I start ...I had been married since 2 years ...n since they I had been diagnosed with pcos ...I had severe insomnia , depression and lot more anxiety and all ...I don't know why ...but I always feel alone and broke ...I think he doesn't care enough for me ...he never likes to spend time with me .. ...he likes to hangout with his friends....but I love him alot....n its hurting me ..it's worsening my situation ...n I have to live with my mother in law ...know she never liked me from the start ....she doesn't want me to get married to him ...as  I m still a lot young...n still studying ...and I have never felt like being at home there ...is always tough for me ...even if I try my best ...she would always say something to make me feel that I m wrong ...n my husband doesn't care about ...as he's always busy with his friends n work. ..I don't want see her face anymore ...both my husband n mother in law ...would go out when ever they want to ...but not allowed to go out ...he never took me out since our marriage ...it's exhausting for meh ...I can't figure out what I can do. .. it feels like hell to be there ...n I can't even see any other face other than both of them ...I feel like I had been locked to something ...I too want to go out .. n I want to go out with my husband and all ....

Attended a wedding after a very long time . A wedding where I didn't had to work😂. Sed life of bois😪😅

Happy

Queen Avril Lavigne,
Marry me pls

Marriage

Attended the wedding of a friend I made here!! 😄

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