What is (romantic) love? Is it bad? Is it good? Is it even a worthwhile pursuit? And why is it that people who are most afraid to fall, fall hard and deep?
My understanding of love is that it is just a tool. In the right hands, it will show you heaven but in the wrong ones, it creates destruction that takes years to recover.
They say when you both are not emotionally dependent on each other that’s when true love happens. But is it possible? If we get emotionally connected, we’re doomed to get emotionally dependent to some extent. And what if in the process of chasing your respective life goals, you struggle to communicate with each other and it messes with your mind? What’s the option left? To be emotionally strong I guess. But how to do it?Anyone who’s been there and done that, please share.
I’m Olivander.
Olivander @olivander
Has been confessed. Is being reciprocated equally. Right now busy with chasing our respective life goals. I just don’t want to be emotionally dependent solely on him. It will only create problems for the both of us because we really need to be focused right now.
