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Anonymous

What is it called when you are interested in the same girl for 7 years? Is it still crush??

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Anonymous

its lovee
you’re madly in love with her

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Anonymous

Maybe

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Anonymous

yes maybee
ask her outt
if she says yess it’ll be the best ( I wish that for youu!!!)
and if she doesn’t, move on I guess

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Anonymous

I hope you suggesting this after reading the below conversation…

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Anonymous

umm well
I didn’t

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Anonymous

No u r head over heels for her go get her all d best bro

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Anonymous

Thank you…but I am scared

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Anonymous

I haven’t confessed and I haven’t moved on

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Anonymous

She’s my mom’s friend’s daughter… I am scared it would get complicated

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Anonymous

What would you do?

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Anonymous

She speaks to me about everything, I am the first one who she comes to whenever she is sad. She helps me when I am not ok. She hugs me whenever we meet ( that’s big thing in our city). Are these signs or what is it?

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Anonymous

Like??

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Anonymous

We are of same age…but complications are always there

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Anonymous

It’s obsession

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Anonymous

If it is…how to overcome it?

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Anonymous

Well what is it that you’re holding onto? Is it the feeling of liking someone, or is it her as a person that has you feeling this way? Sometimes we’re obsessed with people we perceive as not attainable so confess and you might be able to reach a decision

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Anonymous

Both I guess

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Anonymous

Confess, it will give you a good enough outcome to either move on or be with this person

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Anonymous

But will I not lose her forever??

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Anonymous

That’ll force you to move on. It’s not like other people don’t exist or won’t come into your life. Keep it moving

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Anonymous

True but… it’s tough

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Anonymous

The thing about confessions is it’ll only be tough for a moment

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Anonymous

And it’s consequences???

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Anonymous

Oh there’s consequences to you confessing? Okay let’s find you another way to get over this then. The way I got over someone I liked for over 3 years was I did something stupid and I then focused on my stupid thing regarding this person and never liked them again cuz what I did was too cringey

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Anonymous

What did you do?

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Anonymous

Made a fake id and basically went against my entire personality just to talk to him 🤢🤮that was a new low

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Anonymous

I talk to her almost everyday and if I don’t,she will text me or she directly comes to my home. I feel it’s like I am higher than a friend but lower than a boyfriend. But I don’t want to lose her, so I am happy with it. But sometimes I want to be her boyfriend. By the way what you did was sort of stalking I feel. But what was his reaction? Did he find out it was you?

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Anonymous

Isn’t that putting you on hold until there’s something better or maybe she’s waiting for you to make the first move. It’s for you to find out which it is.
Who knows, maybe he did, maybe he didn’t. It was a high school crush anyways.

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How do I find out?
And are you over him? If yes…are you in a relationship currently? And how did you get over him?

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By making a move, whether that withdrawing yourself completely or asking her out. The choice is yours.
Yeah as I kept growing so did my taste in men. I realised there wasn’t actually much to him than his popular boy rep and a pretty face. And not in a relationship currently

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Anonymous

And what can be the outcomes in both cases?
And how much time did it take for you to realise it?

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When you distance yourself completely- they’ll either reach out to you or reciprocate the energy and withdraw as well. If they reach out, look at the content of it objectively. Are they asking about your well-being or talking about their own thing.
If you make a move, it’s she feels the same or she doesn’t

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Anonymous

Ohhhk… Will try this.

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