What is it called when you are interested in the same girl for 7 years? Is it still crush??
its lovee
you’re madly in love with her
Maybe
yes maybee
ask her outt
if she says yess it’ll be the best ( I wish that for youu!!!)
and if she doesn’t, move on I guess
I hope you suggesting this after reading the below conversation…
umm well
I didn’t
No u r head over heels for her go get her all d best bro
Thank you…but I am scared
I haven’t confessed and I haven’t moved on
She’s my mom’s friend’s daughter… I am scared it would get complicated
What would you do?
She speaks to me about everything, I am the first one who she comes to whenever she is sad. She helps me when I am not ok. She hugs me whenever we meet ( that’s big thing in our city). Are these signs or what is it?
Like??
We are of same age…but complications are always there
It’s obsession
If it is…how to overcome it?
Well what is it that you’re holding onto? Is it the feeling of liking someone, or is it her as a person that has you feeling this way? Sometimes we’re obsessed with people we perceive as not attainable so confess and you might be able to reach a decision
Both I guess
Confess, it will give you a good enough outcome to either move on or be with this person
But will I not lose her forever??
That’ll force you to move on. It’s not like other people don’t exist or won’t come into your life. Keep it moving
True but… it’s tough
The thing about confessions is it’ll only be tough for a moment
And it’s consequences???
Oh there’s consequences to you confessing? Okay let’s find you another way to get over this then. The way I got over someone I liked for over 3 years was I did something stupid and I then focused on my stupid thing regarding this person and never liked them again cuz what I did was too cringey
What did you do?
Made a fake id and basically went against my entire personality just to talk to him 🤢🤮that was a new low
I talk to her almost everyday and if I don’t,she will text me or she directly comes to my home. I feel it’s like I am higher than a friend but lower than a boyfriend. But I don’t want to lose her, so I am happy with it. But sometimes I want to be her boyfriend. By the way what you did was sort of stalking I feel. But what was his reaction? Did he find out it was you?
Isn’t that putting you on hold until there’s something better or maybe she’s waiting for you to make the first move. It’s for you to find out which it is.
Who knows, maybe he did, maybe he didn’t. It was a high school crush anyways.
How do I find out?
And are you over him? If yes…are you in a relationship currently? And how did you get over him?
By making a move, whether that withdrawing yourself completely or asking her out. The choice is yours.
Yeah as I kept growing so did my taste in men. I realised there wasn’t actually much to him than his popular boy rep and a pretty face. And not in a relationship currently
And what can be the outcomes in both cases?
And how much time did it take for you to realise it?
When you distance yourself completely- they’ll either reach out to you or reciprocate the energy and withdraw as well. If they reach out, look at the content of it objectively. Are they asking about your well-being or talking about their own thing.
If you make a move, it’s she feels the same or she doesn’t
Ohhhk… Will try this.
