What is even happening?
Every young woman is getting married as soon as she is done with her graduation and all that
I was hoping that since it is 2022 things would be different and better, but it’s like we are back to the primitive times
Why would you want to end your life by getting married so early?! It is so unfair and weird and I don’t even have adjectives left
Why would parents would not want to trust their daughters and have them live their lives properly? They should be allowed to go out for trips, do masters, set up or be a part of businesses (or any other field of their choice) and lead the world like they should
They should be able to have the same liberty as boys or their brothers have, where they should not be able to blame themselves and their genders and wonder where it all went south so fast
You expect a girl to take care of a fcking unknown family as if they are her own, cook for them, feed them, and do what not at the age of 24 but do not allow her to go on trips to live her life and make something of herself
The number of times we have to call out people and parents for considering their daughters as burdens is BS!
Please it’s 2022, let’s not have these double standards
True but I still baffled that in heterosexual scenario why do guys even settle so soon. 🤷🏽♂️
Being a girl I’m having second thoughts about marriage. My area of interest is medicine and it will take me almost 8 yrs (along with masters) to complete and I want to go on trekking and travel. I also want to pursue higher studies in abroad. Now finding a partner who is supportive and shares the same thinking is really difficult these days. And once you touch 30 people start shaming you for not reproducing. World is already overpopulated and miserable place why will I increase the burden more.
Are you talking about arrange marriages here or just females getting married in general? Part of me feels like you’re talking about arranged or forced marriages, because how else would she be cooking & cleaning for an unknown family?
But, if you’re talking in general, maybe it’s something they want. Not everybody matures at the same rate. Just because they get married, it doesn’t mean their life has ended. She can still live her live as if she would not married.
I find it interesting you are focusing on the female though. What about the guy? Do you feel his life is also over?
It’s not unfair nor is it weird. You’re spending your time & energy over something that is none of your business & something you can’t control.
Well for starters let’s do talk about females and other males getting married by their choice - it has been seen and observed even then, when we feel that We have gone through proper evolution to uplift ourselves and meet each other at equal levels, the females are forced to meet the expectations of doing standard domestic chores while the man become the ‘bread winner’ of the family, certainly implying that females, even during love fusions they have to succumb to their irrelevant and absurd roles.
And please do tell me, how many times has the guy being held accountable for whatever goes wrong in families with love and forced marriage? Be it from determining the child’s gender upon birth to the most idiotic and nonsensical issues which involve cooking related topics, females have always been blamed.
How many times has been a man been pointed out and held accountable for having multiple affairs? But if a woman does it, she is called the most obscene slurs as if she should be the only one working on their marriage
And also, I will always be delighted to spend my time and energy on topics like these, because it is my business as a responsible citizen if this country.
And I for one, don’t think that you are putting enough effort in important matters like these.
Word up!
