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Anonymous

What if there is a guy who likes you and he actually is a nice person and doing his best to make you fall for them…but then there are you still aren’t ready for being in a relationship because of some past (bad) experiences, and you don’t wanna hurt that person and it’s not that you like them or something…and you even made him clear that you are not gonna fall for him but still that guy is trying his best…so…I need your suggestions guys!

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Anonymous

That’s what I am doing right? I don’t have feelings for that person and it’s not like that I gave him some hope or something like that even that person blocked me for a year but then he again start talking to me saying that it is hard for him to forget me…ab aisa tou hai nhi ki main koi hoor ki pari hu

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Anonymous

Same thing happened with me. I took 2 yrs. We were on and off tho. Until it started again in January and I promised him I would really try this time. I did. And I did tell him that I loved him. Which was super hard for me to do, loving someone and giving myself a chance that is.
So as soon as I started to get more into him, more I started to get hurt. That person just became more and more unavailable over the time and I kept trying to make it better for us. It just got worse due to lack of response. Now I’m at a point where I’m numb to the pain. I’m not even breaking up cause of the promise I did. And it doesn’t even matter now if we do break up or not cause I’m past it. It’s been days since we talked and that person doesn’t seem to care even a bit like he always never did.

Dhruvi @gohil

It becomes toxic…toxic relationship…right?

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Anonymous

Toxic doesn’t even cover it. Because the mental fuck ups you’ve already got in your life and your absolutely on your own. Then someone comes, gives you hopes and goes cold…just like that!

Tbh I never had thought that I would end up in a toxic relationship. It’s easy to read posts on the internet about toxic relationships…but in reality, it’s tough to realise that you are in one.

Dhruvi @gohil

And then sometimes we end up blaming ourselves…

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Anonymous

I do blame myself. Even though there was lots of warning signs and he did showed me how he actually is and what he thinks of me. I still gave him another chance and it cost me a lot.

I’m doing way better than before though.

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