What if I never get over him?
You will , you have to work on it . Do you want to know how to move on?
1st. stop thinking good about him. And accept that fact he never stays with you
2nd. Fulfil your needs, distract yourself, enjoy things, talk to new people, play, walk, and eat good food.
3rd. Forgive him and let his memory go .
There is nothing to forgive. We ended on good terms…I like him so much…it’s been 6 weeks and I can’t stop thinking about him
Thats the big problem
What should I do then?
Things take time , start by making friends
You will if you really want to
Obviously I want to. But how?
First maybe limit thinking about him. For example, if you starting to think about it, you’ll pinch yourself to stop yourself from doing so something like that.
Hang out with your friends, dont lock up yourself in the bedroom coz you’ll end just thinking about him more. Have fun outside or do something to distract yourself from thinking of him for day.
Stop thinking about what ifs coz there is no what ifs. Life goes on and will not wait for you.
Anyway, no need to rush to do everything to accept or forget all about your feelings for him coz it never works, u just thought of him more, the more yiu try to get over him. It takes time to really extricate yourself from him. Just do things little by little. Go outside. Have fun. Distract yourself. Ask for your friends company or make new friends.
I have been through that phase…distracting and having fun…it’s been 6 weeks…I went to mumbai had fun there…going out n all…but 6 weeks! And I still cry for him. Why???
You love him too much. Maybe you do have some regret letting him go and agreeing with your break up. Given that you all broke up just fine.
Idk if its gonna be helpful but I have some experience breaking up in good terms then I tried to win her back. But it’s too late coz there’s already new. Guess what I did? I cried then after that, I went from loving her to forcing myself to hate her (I succeeded but I realized it’s not right). I then thought that after that instead of forcing myself to forget, I literally stop myself from thinking any related of her. I force myself to delete everything that reminds me of her. I force myself to accept the truth. I let her go. I said to myself that I can lived without her. I lived just fine before I met her so why not just go back to the way before I met her.
It worked for me. Although, right now we still talked, platonically. We became each others bestfriend without any problem.
He is going to canada for his further studies…so nothing much I can do. We just broke up seeing that there’s no future together.
I see. That’s tough.
What thoughts u get when u think about him?
His smile, his thoughts, the way he used to sing in car.
The way he kissed me and the way he called me babe…idk what has happened to me.
So don’t u think about the scene when he left you ?
This thing make you feel good about him , it make you love him more. Hard to move on
Don’t suppress ur feeling just think about him an write on paper and just put in a dustbin
It was mutual…I initiated…I had to I had no other option
That’s the thing I don’t hate him…I really like him. And I don’t know what to do.
I am tired if being heartbroken. I really am. I just wanna be happy again
It takes time. more when you have no reason to not love him . you will be fine
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