What I have learnt in my life regarding relationship is that
If kabhi bhi Aapka partner, aapka bf/gf chorke jaane ki baat kre, toh smjh jao wo already Jaa chuka/chuki. Koi aapse pyar krega/kregi toh aapko secure feel bhi dega, aapko priority bnayega, aapko waqt dega. Aur uske dimag m kabhi jaane ka khayal nhi aayega. Ladai hona normal’ hai par agar gusse m ya kisi bhi point pr aapko ye sunne mile lo it won’t work, we are different, we should be friends, etc toh smjh jao aapka partner aapse bore ho gya and.he/she already have a backup now. Aise situation m jitna jaldi ho sake aap nikalne ki kosis kro, qki aap rukoge ya rokoge toh suffering aapka hi bdhega.
Yeah right.
Yup, by the way I know you, we have talked earlier
That’s nice. Ur id?
I can’t share as you are very isolated and i know you won’t talk
I didn’t know I was an isolated type of person. Well… if u want to talk ping me. And have a good day.
In the last conversation of us, you were so determined that you wanted to not share your pain , and this made us drift apart
I already pinged you earlier but you ignored, you were going through something, you were suffering, all I was asking you is to share but you were stubborn that I can post my pain over post but won’t share it exactly. And that’s how our friendship got broken
Send msg now. I want to know who u are and what I talked earlier.
It is showing that request is pending
There r many. I don’t know which is urs. Or maybe we have disconnected. So there is no way to connect.
There was a time when you were in pain and I was asking to share so that I can help, now the coin is flipped am in pain now. And you know I lost trust in everything, I don’t feel like talking to anyone, I feel I am born to live alone
We haven’t disconnected
I’m sorry for that. R u willing to share ur id? Only if u want.
Ok
numan @numanisbhat
There arefew things har cheez ka apna time hota hai. If you love someone unconditionally but in a pure form trust me cheeze kabi kharab nai hoti . And if you’r partner wants to leave to for someone else let them taste that fruit as well. In the end make a marriage priority over a relationship . Ultimately that’s gonna work aur ye rship ki bkchodi chordo.
Dost , I agree with you. I give priority to marriage. That’s why whenever I date someone I try to know that person well . And not everytime we succeed. I did loved that person unconditionally, yet she left. She left me for no reason and it wasn’t in my hand to stop her
numan @numanisbhat
Love after marriage till that try to work on things that won’t cause problem to your relationship . Pyar k 2 pehelu hai before marriage and after marriage
Before marriage you should make things clear and after marriage jo pyar k davey kiye hai wo implement karo. Phele stand lena zaroori hai .
numan @numanisbhat
Fail hongey kyu jaise ki bhai ne bola we get to know someone well . Tou pata chalta hi insan ka character
numan @numanisbhat
Accepting the failure is prior key
Bilkul aap ne wahi likha hai jo mai doosre logo ko suggest karta hu🙂
That’s actually true, my ex used to say these things to me only because I couldn’t text him on time one day, and after that several times he did that, 2 months before I finally took a step and asked him for an over in the relationship, now I am much more happier and I see room for myself to grow as much as I want.
I didn’t understand
I mean my ex used to threat me that he will leave me soon and used to act really arrogant with me over Small things.
You took a smart decision
