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Anonymous

What do you guys do if you get a reply from someone of a message that you send 3days ago??I mean he tells me he’s a busy person but 3 days??? Isn’t it too long?? But when he talks to me…I really feel like he wants to talk to me but then he dissappears for 3 4 days…🥲🥲🥲🥲I hate this

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Anonymous

Maybe he’s not interested in you

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Anonymous

He’s taking you for granted

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Anonymous

Yeah I feel it too…so what should I do?? Ignore him??because I never text him first its he who already texts me first…

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Anonymous

*always

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Anonymous

He could be genuinely busy. Sometimes people prefer to talk only when they know they can be available for some hours. You can tell him instead of ghosting you, he can tell that he’s busy and message when he’s free even if it is after 2-3 days

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Anonymous

Yeah you’re right…I should ask him…It feels weird you know I mean it hurts sometimes…

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Anonymous

I also used to do this sometimes. Once my friend got irritated and said if I’m busy I should tell him so he doesn’t wait for my reply. I should end the conversation when I’m busy. From that time onwards I do so

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Anonymous

I told him to do this too…but here I am waiting for his reply…

Raahgir @raahgir

Then maybe he is taking you for granted🥲

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Anonymous

Sadly…I feel it too…🥲🥲

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Anonymous

That’s why I’m here…tell me what should I do??😔😔

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Nyx @lost_not_found

Maybe he’s not that into you?

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Anonymous

Yeah I guess

Madhvi @mimadhu

Maybe he really is? He might have forgot but cared to reply back as soon as he remembered?

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Anonymous

🥲🥲may be…but I’m confused…its been days and I don’t know what hes upto…😭

Madhvi @mimadhu

Do you think taking this up directly with him could be helpful?

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Anonymous

Yeah I think I should directly ask him?But What should I ask?

Madhvi @mimadhu

You can say that you feel like having spontaneous and involving conversation

Madhvi @mimadhu

And perhaps followup

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Anonymous

Okayyy…thank you so for your help…

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