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Anonymous

What do you guys do if you get a reply from someone of a message that you send 3days ago??I mean he tells me hes a busy person but 3 days??? Isnt it too long?? But when he talks to me匈 really feel like he wants to talk to me but then he dissappears for 3 4 days佞必必必必I hate this

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Anonymous

Maybe hes not interested in you

Anonymous

Hes taking you for granted

Anonymous

Yeah I feel it too存o what should I do?? Ignore him??because I never text him first its he who already texts me first

Anonymous

*always

Anonymous

He could be genuinely busy. Sometimes people prefer to talk only when they know they can be available for some hours. You can tell him instead of ghosting you, he can tell that hes busy and message when hes free even if it is after 2-3 days

Anonymous

Yeah youre right匈 should ask him匈t feels weird you know I mean it hurts sometimes

Anonymous

I also used to do this sometimes. Once my friend got irritated and said if Im busy I should tell him so he doesnt wait for my reply. I should end the conversation when Im busy. From that time onwards I do so

Anonymous

I told him to do this too在ut here I am waiting for his reply

Raahgir @raahgir

Then maybe he is taking you for granted必

Anonymous

Sadly匈 feel it too佞必必

Anonymous

Thats why Im here宇ell me what should I do??

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Nyx @lost_not_found

Maybe hes not that into you?

Anonymous

Yeah I guess

Madhvi @mimadhu

Maybe he really is? He might have forgot but cared to reply back as soon as he remembered?

Anonymous

必必may be在ut Im confused夷ts been days and I dont know what hes upto佞

Madhvi @mimadhu

Do you think taking this up directly with him could be helpful?

Anonymous

Yeah I think I should directly ask him?But What should I ask?

Madhvi @mimadhu

You can say that you feel like having spontaneous and involving conversation

Madhvi @mimadhu

And perhaps followup

Anonymous

Okayyy宇hank you so for your help

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