What do you do when you don’t know who you are anymore? When you are not the same person you used to be and everything around just seems confusing, what do you do? When you feel like you are loosing at the game big time and you don’t really know what the rules of the game are anymore, how do you not give up?
this is just life happening to you
there is a time in everyone’s life where they stand still and try to evaluate who are they and what happened to the person they once was, the answer is you evolved.
maybe its because of the environment around you changed, or the circumstances or simply you encountered a situation that sub consciously changed you. and thus you evolved, evolving doesn’t always means a better version of yourself but definitely a more experienced version of yours.
a wise man once said when nothing goes right, go left and when everything goes wrong go to sleep. both these sayings are complimentary to each other, when you find yourself in a difficult situation and things are falling apart you can either try to fix it with what you know about it or go with the flow when you have no idea how to fix it.
in short one can try to control the situation if he knows the way or let the storm pass because one day it will.