What do I do for him more my husband keeps on complaining that I don't care about him 

Conflict

hey future wife.

I know am gonna love you as much as i can. Just can't wait to say this to you. I LOVE YOU BEAUTIFUL. idk how you gonna look but, am imagining you as the most beautiful girl for now. am gonna make you think that you married the right guy. am not saying am perfect, when we love we need to adjust for them. am gonna give everything i got. am 22 now, i guess another 6 of waiting for you. HOPE that i will meet you soon.

idk why am saying this but, am gonna love that girl the most and i know that. just can't wait.

3am Thoughts

I'm unable to put in words what I'm feeling.  I'm married to my 11yrs boyfriend from past 8months. Ive been through depression twice and tried to attempt suicide thrice in last 8months. I've been through alot to convince my parents for this marriage. My mother in law was all cool n ok with this marriage but somehow she tortures me everyday with her words. Its been 8months and daily there is something or other and she makes me feel I'm worthless and i don't deserve anything.  Ive made to feel like shit. 2months back my Blood pressure reached 48. All because of depression and tension. My father in law already passed away. And that is the reason my husband doesn't utter a word against my MIL but that doesnt mean she continues to torture me everyday. 


Depression

What will you do if you say your husband/ bf not to meet someone as you don't get good vibes from them. But he still keeps on meeting with them ignoring all your fights and requests 😣😣😣😣😣

Relationships

I waited  for him for 6 years... at last i left  alone.... every time i him as my priority... now its time for marriage..he choose his family decision as final.. and left me in pain.. how can i get out of it... i can't  even control myself for crying... how can i make myself to ve life alone without him

I don't know where to go, so writing it in here. 
My husband is taking his mom with him to make her stay with us. We just got married recently. It's just one and half months. i had to stay with his mom once before marriage for 25 days, and in those 25 days, she showed me hell. I wasn't even married to him at that time. She criticized me for everything, right from how I use washroom to how i seat to my cooking.. everything. I was pursuing my PG at that time, i had to do a lot of work on my laptop, whenever i used to work for my presentations or anything, she used to taunt me about those. And now as I am married to the guy, i have to stay with the lady. She made my cry many times due to her behaviour towards me. My head is exploding. I find myself always thinking about the future scenarios when she will be here. It's just another 13days and they are gonna be here. Can't take it anymore.cant run away also. I don't know what to do. Can't talk to my husband about this also. Whenever i tried talking, he criticized me saying i have a very bad mentality. I can't take it anymore. my brain is just not working properly. I don't know where to go. 

All the thing is described in my @ name ... 

Here it is. I’m from Belgium and left for Japan where I my husband lived. I left my family and country for him. We married one year after I’ve got in Japan. I was 20 he was 27. 

I waited almost 7 years to have à proper wedding, that’s was a total disaster. 
The place where we made the wedding delayed a lot the hair set trial and make up. Finally we found out that the hair and make up artist couldn’t even don’t a simple ponytail not a proper liner wing. 
I had to don’t my hair and make myself the day of my wedding ... can you believe it ...? The day you’re supposed to be taken care of.. 
my husband spent the whole ceremony talking to his friend, he didn’t looked at me once not told me I was beautiful. He just told me «  yah your hair and make up is same than usual » YEAH ?! Maybe because I had to do it myself looser !!! 
He decided that we would arrived together at the guest room ... so no bride walk for me... I felt like he wanted all the spotlight on him ... 
he didn’t even put the ring on my finger ... the wedding staff forgot to make us sign the wedding no agreement paper which was the most important part for me .... 
how come ??? I spent all my money on this wedding and I feel like it was the worst day of my life ... it’s been over a Year now but I’m still making nightmare about it and feel so depressed... I feel like I will never have a proper wedding ... it was the dream of my life now I’m 27 and feel so old.. Sometimes I’m even thinking of getting a divorce even tho I love my husband just to get a proper nice wedding ... 

Marriage

I am very depressed. My 6 yrs old arrange marriage is about to come to an end. I never had a cordial relationship with my mother in law but I loved my husband. Got married in 2014, had a difficult life at in-laws' home. In-laws moved in with me to my husband's work city. She created problems b/w me and him. He was a mumma's boy since the beginning. He even was in constant contact with his ex even after 6 months of marriage. He stopped only when I found out their messages. He apologized and I forgave. But still, things didn't improve. A month later I moved to my hometown. He came with his mother a few days later and we had a family counseling wherein my mother-in-law blamed me for things I never did and my husband was mum. He didn't support me at all. 
Later I myself apologized to him for no fault of mine just to save the marriage. I know I was a fool. He took advantage and put forth a lot of conditions like I won't be talking to my mom on phone often, I won't be telling my mom anything happening at my inlaws, and blah blah.
I agreed to everything and still, he left me and returned to his work city along with his mom!
For a month, he kept ignoring me, he didn't take my calls and kept saying do not come here. He said his mom would feel bad if I would return. After a month of this nonsense, I asked for a divorce and only then he asked me to return. 
I returned. I didn't want to stay at my parent's home because there are different problems. We moved to the US in 2015 and things improved. We returned in 2019, being pregnant and delivered my baby boy in May 2019. Mother in law wasn't good again. problems started erupting and my husband again started becoming the Mumma's boy that he was. 
Fast forward to 2020, my husband brought me back to my hometown. Now with the baby it became even more difficult to stay with mother in law as she wasnt helping with the baby at all. I was actively looking to restart my career as because I was in US, my career came to a hault. When I got a good opportunity, I asked my husband to let me stay with my parents for 2 months so that I can dedicate all my time for the job without worrying about the baby. My parents are very helpful with the baby. This irked my husband so much that he stopped talking to me after dropping me to my parents place. He totally ignored my phone calls and messages. He blocked me on whatsapp. I sent so many vent out messages where I said I wont leave your mom as I know she is one behind your behavior. 
In 2 months, things escalated to a level that 2 days back my younger sister and my husband got into a ugly fight. I had been trying to make him understand since 2 months, I tried all ways. He was partying with his mom while I was crying day in and day out. 
His party pictures made me so angry that I even emailed this to his office HR. They had warned him which again made him more adamant.
I am feeling guilty even though I know it's not my fault. I had sacrificed my career for him, cant he support me in my career? would he leave me and my baby if I want to stay at my parent's place.
Please hep me😩

I'm feeling so insecure.  My husband had a emotional affair about 2 1/2 years ago. Now I found out he had a physical affair about a week ago. These are with 2 different people.  I found out about it because the other person found me on Facebook and sent me the text messages between them. He said he loves me and doesn't want to leave me. However my self esteem is shattered.  I feel betrayed, hurt, disrespected,  and alone all at the same time. Any advice would be appreciated and helpful. Thank u.

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