Weβre currently living in Paris and we have been living in a one-bedroom flat for the last 5 years. And finally we got to visit a flat (2 bedrooms and others) in Paris. So of course I want it. Itβs close to my school, Iβm closer to my friends (my support system and second family) but my father received an offer of another flat outside of Paris. My father wants to move there, but I donβt. However, I feel like I donβt really have a choice, according to my father itβs a lot cheaper, itβs easier for him. But, my mother and I have to travel 1h or more to get to work/school. My younger sister have to change schools and I will be faraway from my close friends and they donβt want me to move, neither.
I try to show and tell my father why itβs very inconvenient to move there, but he wonβt listen. Not only that, but I feel like he keeps shutting me down every time he sees that Iβm not happy with it. I donβt want what to think, I know we canβt have everything in life, but I have grown attached to this place and I donβt see myself moving. Of course, I donβt want to live in a one-bedroom flat all my life butβ¦ I donβt know, I feel soooo frustrated like life is punishing me and Iβm not allowed to be happy and have a normal life like anyone else.
You should show him how responsible you are, that youβre intelligent and youβre no longer a small child who wants something all the time but youβre an older person that should have some rights about the world. Donβt argue with him just make real and reasonable arguments
Because the reason for moving out is money, you try to get a par time job and earn some extra cash to support the rent. You will learn a lot and will earn money both together.
BTW Iβm assuming youβre of legal age for work in France