Well this sudden wave of overthinking and sadness just hit me 
I am thinking about one of my friendship
Like we suddenly stopped talking i used to tell him everything and now we don't even talk from talking daily to just seeing eachothers snap 
I don't know what brings our bond at this stage suddenly he started behaving differently wierd awkward standing beside me in group picture and many more things...
I tried talking to him also told him that is behaving differently these days he said change is imp and I remember i casual while joking asked him that i used to know a crazy mad boy i can't see him and he said may be u will not find him also he added maybe he doesn't want to be found!! 
I seriously don't know what that means i ignored this at that time but now I'm overthinking 

I tried and i stopped sending him memes and I don't initiate the conversation now but ya try to act normal in a grp chat but now from few days I am feeling that he is ignoring some of my msges in grp chat and replying differently means it's not what he used to reply 

But sometimes he act normal and sometimes wierd 

Going through something similar 😔
It's heartbreaking!

Stranger

3am Thoughts

My boyfriend cheated on me during april 2023. His friends helped him out. The girl knew that i was his gf and they’re all from the same batch. We tried working it out but he wouldn’t be actively participating in giving efforts in rebuilding the relationship, he would say he’s trying but he would do nothing, it would disappoint me and it would make me angry which then would ultimately make me seem like a bad guy. Finally a month back he said he didn’t want to do continue it anymore and so i let go. He cheated on me during my exams, it was painful for me to rebuild the relationship while trying to forgive him but still i tried. I think i still haven’t healed properly from the betrayal. Recently i started dating a guy and i straight up told him that I don’t want to be committed cos mentally i am not ready to have my trust broken again. The second guy was also cheated on and he too has trust issues. He loves me a lot i think and i think he is too possessive. He accuses me of cheating on him all the time and recently told me that it’s over because he thought i was cheating on him. I’m pretty clueless rn, everyone is making it seem like it’s my fault.

Breakup

I was in a 4 year relationship, we broke up 6 months back. Many guys have tried on me since  they are really impressive and got great personalities but I just can’t or don’t want to   I spoke to a few , not to lie the conversation was quite exciting and  engaging  but if you ask me if would go out with them for a date I just can’t.  even if they are what I would want.  

1. I just can’t imagine myself being all chirpy bouncy  or happy like was in  the relationship before.  

2. a part of me wants to but I’m just tired.  

3. What will my ex think… maybe we had a dim chance to get back and I blew it off. Even though he’s said he doesn’t feel anything for me anymore.  
And we haven’t spoken ever since.  
I miss him a lot.  

Would I it be better to go for a casual relationship to heal from the previous one ? 



Love

I am not happy...why??.maybe i think too much...or maybe i expect  too much...
i told my hubby that i am unhappy..
the moment i sent, he replied ask me why ? n i thought he care... n i replied in seconds..yet no more reply after that...just because of this, i getting more unhappy, i feel i m neglected.. i feel that i am no longer important to him...
in my point of view, if he told me he is unhappy, i will send him message and wait at the same screen for his reply..then i will try my best to comfort him...but why it will not happened back to me? 
i understand that he is stress..he is unhappy too.. but pls care my feeling a bit oso can...
sometimes, i do not know what i did wrong...i gave him enough space..to do his own thing, hv his own time, coz i know he is tired and stress..
but i get blame say i din share my feeling to him... n say i nvr tell him...n argument start... the issue is, did he really ask? should i tell? he is ord v stress, should i still tell him how i feel? hahaha, i bet not.. coz i just did it n wat i get? nth back ...just neglect...

maybe as a conclusion, i am nth for him...

I thought I will not share this on this platform but huh! I see a need for me to vent out! Most of us have someone we want to share our life with! I have always waited for love to knock at my door, so I kept waiting.but one day I got so desperate and got into a relationship which just lasted for 10days! Nothing was wrong with the guy it's just something was missing! Maybe a feeling! Belonging?!. There is a guy who I met on insta, we talked to eachother for 1 year he used to flirt with me but I always ignored it! At that time he had a breakup with his gf, I dnt respond to him because I felt like a backup to him. So I stayed calm even though I had felt something for him! And one fine day when I realised their might be some truth to his words i pickedup some courage and confessed to him! He said he is back with his ex! Wow! I was startled!!! I asked him if you have never moved on from her then why did you talk to me like that! I was more  shocked by the response he gave! He said even if it had some meaning back then we never had a talk! I was like wow! When you have not moved on from someone you love pls dont play with other people's feeling! Cause that other person is already trying to mend their broken heart and then you show up and do such things with them! They are destroyed! 

Hi. I needed some advice. I have a boyfriend of 6 years now. And i love him. Our relationship is going great. Recently, another guy from my workplace started giving me attention and flirting with me. I told him that I'm not really comfortable with this. And he stopped. This guy is really sweet. Today, he told me that he really likes me and just honestly blurted out his heart to me. I told him politely that i don't think of him in that way and we should stay friends. Now I'm feeling really guilty that i didn't tell him about my boyfriend. I just didn't want to hurt his feelings. And wanted to subtly reject his advances. But deep down, now i feel i should've just told him that i have a boyfriend. What do I do now? Should I bring this topic again with him and tell him this time? Or just let it go?

Boyfriend

After a year my ex who broke up w me unfollowed me all of a sudden. What does this mean. I know that he cared abt me 2 months ago

hey... Im hating this boy rn but I love him but he giving me this vibes that doesn't want to talk to me. we been talking for 6 months and we are long distance even tho we live kinda close but we can't hang because he always have plans with his friends and I have strict parents.. anyways these months been amazing with him even tho we get mad at each other and fight for the stupid stuff but recently I have been feeling is distancing himself from me he be leaving me on delivered for no reason past few days. Yesterday he told me he was gonna play video games and I said oh okay and never got a message back and he posted on his story "FT?" while I was on delivered. 
But I just wanna know what this means?

Lonely

my boyfriend says that he loves me but just a little, not like he used to in the starting. He says we had too many fights to  keep that same love. Also he doesn't like to just sit and talk, he says there's nothing to talk about like generally but i am a person who loves to talk. We do a fight on a daily basis because of the differences bw us. I feel it's time to let it go because he isn't the one. 

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