Well this sudden wave of overthinking and sadness just hit me 
I am thinking about one of my friendship
Like we suddenly stopped talking i used to tell him everything and now we don't even talk from talking daily to just seeing eachothers snap 
I don't know what brings our bond at this stage suddenly he started behaving differently wierd awkward standing beside me in group picture and many more things...
I tried talking to him also told him that is behaving differently these days he said change is imp and I remember i casual while joking asked him that i used to know a crazy mad boy i can't see him and he said may be u will not find him also he added maybe he doesn't want to be found!! 
I seriously don't know what that means i ignored this at that time but now I'm overthinking 

I tried and i stopped sending him memes and I don't initiate the conversation now but ya try to act normal in a grp chat but now from few days I am feeling that he is ignoring some of my msges in grp chat and replying differently means it's not what he used to reply 

But sometimes he act normal and sometimes wierd 

Going through something similar 😔
It's heartbreaking!

Stranger

3am Thoughts

He always takes me for granted. I have tried uncountable times to make him understand that our relationship won't work this way but he alwys keeps on doing that. Everyday I cry for him becs his behaviour hurts me so much I mean I love him so much he knows that then why the hell he does that to me. He says he loves me but he never makes any effort for our relationship. He even contacts me rarely. I am the one who calls and texts him all the time. And also we are having a long distance relationship since he had to move to another place. I am just tired of everything in my life now.

Relationships

I really don't know how I'm feeling, lonely, maybe. Well we all know how it was during covid situation,we all locked up in our own houses, everyone connecting with each other when we had got nothing to do, right. And now when it's all back to normal it feels like those all connections were just a time pass.
A friend of mine and I was like this with each other, like talking daily and sharing everything. Now post covid life hits us, he went to another town back to his college friends and everything and I'm still stuck where I was. I understand with time it changes and people got busy with their own stuffs and all. But now a days he rarely calls me, and when he does call it's just to share his problems, no "how are you", "what's up with you" or anything. 
I feel like I was just an option for him at that time and now that he's back to his life I don't matter anymore :(


Adulting

I feel really confused, and like I just need to vent. I tend to overthink and then not sleep which is not really great. But to the issue;
I have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years, we live together and have dogs together. We have had quite a rocky relationship with several issues of him texting other girls and flirting. About 7 months ago we started therapy and its immensely helped and I do not really have trust issues anymore especially with the pandemic now...but last night I saw a girl message him and he has been talking to her quite a bit over the past few days (not inapropriately). At this point where I am at I honestly feel like I will never be good enough for him and I should be with someone that appreciates me, at the same time it is very hard to let go of someone who you want to spend your life with and i know most people will just tell me to leave but i just don't know how to let go.
Thanks for reading my vent.

I miss him so much. I don't think he missed me at all we both are in a relationship. I think my importance in his life has been lost.Our relationship is going through a very bad time.  I don't understand  how I can fix this thing? 
  It doesn't matter to him whether I am there or not.His life is going great without me.  How do I live without him?We had such a long relationship.  I am very sad to see him being so toxic.Everything was fine some time ago.  Our fights has made our relationship toxic..I promised to be with him for the rest of my life.  But now it seems that I have to leave him, but how do I leave him.... What should I do 😔

Long Distance Relationship

I'm confused or i'm overthinking...idk what's that but it's just stuck in my head so, any help would be appreciated i really need some advice. It's about a boy we have been talking since months.....from good morning at 9'0clock  to good night at 12. Because of this covid we are not able to meet but we video call at least twice a day. He loves me and by that i mean he takes care of me, he is putting on so much efforts.....he dreams of forever with me......ik a lot of ppl promise forever but this guy means it and that i can see.......i also have feelings for him but we are not in a relationship rn so, here is the issue. Today i saw that he is following some porn stars and some adult pages this made me think that maybe he is a horny guy or he wants relationship for some favours......i'm confused. but then i remember one incident.......one day he asked me "are you virgin" i replied to that but after my reply he felt that he had made uncomfortable by asking so he said sorry, he apologised.......he said he just asked and there was no other intention behind this. Please help.

Overthinking

We haven't talk for almost 2 weeks and here he goes again with his ~flirty~ remarks. I don't know what he's trying to do but one thing's for sure, he doesn't want me to stop liking him. I'll ask JM about this because I'm not so sure anymore what to feel. Does he really want me to stop talking to him when he said that? Or was it his way of telling me subtly that he does not want to engage in that kind of conversation yet and just talk about something else? Idk. Why now? WHYYYYY it's so frustrating. I don't want to be kept on the sideline, I don't deserve this treatment. For me, he gave another mixed signals when he made the Leni-Kiko initiative after I shared a story about political stuff. Then a while ago he didn't even say get some rest to me or JM while we were in the study room, he just gave those encouraging words when ate Bits was there in the study room. Like? Okaaaay. Porke he has a lot of options open. Sure :--) If he wants to play like this, so be it. Tired of chasing the wrong people. Just want to be free from this misery please. I think I'm getting used to the fact that we are not talking often like before and I think that's better so I keep my composure and good attitude for days. Jebal. I know the convo will end also today so let it end juseyo. He's not going to take my words lightly for sure. He got a lot of people naman to support him, I believe. He can do it !!! He's just simping again as usual lmao I HATE U JACOBBBBB WHY U BUILT LIKE THAT ISA KANG RED FLAG AMP ang panget pa na i thought of you during that release but it's a good thing I was not the one playing the girl instead I thought of your ex ka-date para it hurts more and so I know that would never happen to us :)

Jealous

I have a question on my mind and i want you all to answer it.

Recently I told you that there was a guy in my life with whom I was not dating but we were more than friends. I was interested on him after on our very first talk. At that time, i was going through a breakup and the guy I like now, he knows about my breakup. After sometime, my ex came back and asked me to wait for him regarding marriage. I agreed to my ex to wait for him but he left me after an argument so I decided not to go back to him. I told this to the guy I like. Hardly a week after, I realised I love this guy. So I confessed my feelings to him. He said he loves me too. 

Now the problem is, he keeps talking about s@x most of the time which I don't like. I have told him about this but he keeps insisting it in some or the other way. His pros is that he asks about my mental health too and my other problems too. But he doesn't want to commit to me as he wishes to focus on his career or provide any relationship security and still wants to be more than friends and talk about s@x related things.

I am being as friends with him now and asked him to be with me as friends. It's not really working, i get jealous when he talks to multiple girls.

I am feeling extremely overwhelmed. My partner is busy with his friend, as his friends father is hospitalized due to some serious health conditions. It's more than 3 weeks, he barely calls me, text me, whenever I call him he says I am busy I'll call you when I'll be free, then the call never comes from his side. When I bought up how it is affecting me, the not talking, communicating thing, he says you're really being immature, stupid, what's there to talk about daily? I can't talk on phone. I am not a phone person, if you don't understand, go find someone else and don't you dare to cry, it's fake, over acting, gaining sympathy. It really hurt me. Like it's funny how he's scrolling social media, but has no time for me. I really get it, there's nothing wrong to be there for his best friend, but ignoring me is also not the option. 

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