Well I love somone alot I had put his needs first than mine. Thinking one day he would be mine. Whatβs funny is he likes some other girl who has a boyfriend and she still talks to him so nice giving him hopes and also telling him that she canβt cheat her bfβ¦ thn why should she talk soo good and show love β¦ lol loyalty sucks in this generation I donβt care about thisβ¦ but I hope he would come bak to me one dayβ¦
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You mean a girl who has a boyfriend shouldnβt talk to any other boy?
No not like thatβ¦ encouraging someone when you know you have a bf and still you encourage some one who you know they like you β¦and give them hopes and tell them things like I love you β¦lol
She says I love you to him? π π Itβs way more complicated, I thought it to be simple
Yeahβ¦πβ¦its not about this but I have seen such things everywhere. Like wen their is no loyalty and effort with your partner it never last . You canβt blame relationships you need blame people
I wonder why donβt the person you love understands that sheβs not going to be his? Like she already cleared things with him so he needs to move on.
I think he might be thinking of moving on. You should give him time and when he will be ready you can approach him π
He feels one side love is best. He is not understanding its just temporary happiness when the loved one talk to you good. But once that loved person is gone then he may realise. β¦see love , respect or priority should be equal weather itβs friendship or relationship it shouldnβt be one sided it will definitely hurt more one day.
And the worst part is he knows how much I love himβ¦ one day he behaves that Iβm the imp person the other day I donβt existβ¦hurts thoβ¦he wasnβt like this before
But it will hurt him. It pains alot when the person you love is not yours or rather cannot be yours. He will understand with time and I hope he understands soon, the earlier the better.
So does he considers you as his friend?
I hope so
He behaves like he loves me but say as friendβ¦he feels that relationships doesnβt last for him so he doesnβt wanna get commited to anyone he will definitely change this thought β¦ I feel to be with the right one you need to be with the wrong once first β¦but one side will hurt him definitely. Either she will go or lev her bf and come to himβ¦π€£
I donβt think she will leave his bf as she clearly said that she wonβt cheat her bf but who knows? π€·ββοΈ
Are you ok with him considering you as friend as behaving differently? It might be hurting you ig.
It does hurt meβ¦ anyways Iβm the person who always gives alot no matter friendship or relationship so eventually it obvious I get hurt. Itβs fine π letβs see what happens tho
He tells me itβs ok to express my love β¦ and I do its like when ever I open up I get hurt so I keep quite.
No dear. Be careful. Hurting yourself might make you loose your kindness. Make your side clear. Tell him that this thing is hurting you. See if he does anything. In a way you are also doing the same thing which he is doing hoping.
Itβs ok to express your love when in return the other person also has same feelings for you. Otherwise itβs a waste of time and energy.
He knows what hurts me β¦ I tell him not to open her msges from of meβ¦ but yet he doesβ¦ alot like thisβ¦ so now Iβm just silentβ¦ not gonna put any efforts
I think you should move on dear. Give him break, sometimes our absence makes the other person realise our true value.
Agreed
Perfectβ¦thats why I stopped and let him be himself
She is just being a nice person whereas clearing her intention with your crush. She isnβt cheating.
Sorry to break it to you but you should think about it
Absolutely. She already cleared her side πͺ
Doesnβt mean you tell I love you to him everyday even after you have bf rytβ¦ π€£
Then she should be sicked to it β¦ not saying I love you everyday and giving hopes.
shiva kumar @shivavolley99
Dont expect someone or allow someone to come back and ruin your life
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Agreed. π₯°
