Well, I am in a relationship since last 3 years. But the girl is hesitant now to be in this relationship. Hardly she calls me in a day, or send text. I have to text her or else if I call she responds. Just this much. But in past we really spent some quality time together. She reacts too much. For an example if I am 15-20 mins late on date she thinks I don’t give effort. Etc etc. What should I do any suggestions.
Directly talk to her about this situation
I have already. She directly said that she don’t feel like calling me. She says I don’t give effort. I have given my best. But on very small things she picks and start blaming me like anything.
This is called manipulation honestly damn sure she have lose her interest but also she doesn’t wanna get pointed out that’s why she is trying to make you feel bad and play they victim role so dump her before she dumps you!
Arman @choudhary1
Bro, your relationship is over. I’m pretty sure now a days she has a new “friend” with whom she is really close. She is just looking for a reason to leave, she is just waiting for you to make a mistake and when you will do that eventually she will blame the failed relationship on you and leave you for that new “friend”.
If you really want to save your relationship then sit with her and ask her directly what problem is she facing in your relationship and try to overcome that.
And when you are having this conversation with her, see if she is actually interested in communicating and if she is interested then there is hope else she has made up her mind to leave you.
