We met in college during a certification program and we got into a relationshipā¦she was the one who expressed her feelings to me and eventually we both knew we are made for each other kindā¦things goes by normally on and off as she had a very dark and past relationship with someoneā¦she was with him for 6 years and they broke up not officially and itās been two years they didnāt talk as she says but because of that she gets very bad mood swings every few days ā¦she asks for some space from me and I respect thatā¦but now getting so close to her she says she donāt want to be in relationship and she is happy being alone and she even said she had feeling for me earlier and now there is no attachment and she changed herself.
she even left my home city to her hometown ā¦and now the things are we talk mostly on chat normally and she donāt talk on calls and when I say something related to us she just
ignore or say only a word if I ask or write something in a long sentences.
I really want her and sometimes I feel she still have a lil feeling for me.
But most of the times she ignores me like I am nothing for her and that really hurts and I canāt stop thinking about her even while working during my office hours or at nightā¦itās been 2 months now after she left.
What shall I doā¦I really feel I am stuck and even move on seems so challenging !!
Please help guys š¶
Itās okay, buddy. Heartbreaks tend to hurt like hell. It sounds like she has made it clear what she wants which is to be single. Maybe you guys can stay friends. Have a talk with her. Explain how you feel. Get some clarity. I know itās awful but you must accept the reality and let her go. Respect yourself and your feelings and move on. Itās time.
Joy @joyforlife
Bro. Just to let you know, youāre now in no feelings zone for her. Get out of this as soon as possible. I know this would sound wierd but she will never be available for you now. As soon as you understand that would be better for you.
A heartbreak is far better then the false hope.
