We like each other and have feelings but we agreed on not being in a relationship for now. That’s not the point though…the point is it’s pretty dry. I don’t feel special or there’s no butterfly in my stomach like it used to be before. I still have feelings for him but there’s no zeal. We either pull each other’s leg or just casually talk! It’s too dry :(
Ps : i am not being desperate, i just want to enjoy the flirts, butterflies in my stomach etc moments.
What can i do?
Damn u sound like my best friends situation…umm I would say there’s a honeymoon phase in evey relationship and after its over it usually gets boring and the butterflies fly away doesn’t mean it’s over u are just maturing through it…ik u will say now u guys are not in relationship but feelings toh h na so what if it’s not official like Shakespeare says what’s in a name? Though u haven’t named the relationship or act like ur in one the feelings the truth doesn’t change that u guys are in love. And u say there’s no zeal? How there will be if u are not getting in relationship for whatever reason it is…what’s stopping u? Go fo it…u won’t know the magic or disaster the sea holds by standing on the shore…u gotta get in with ur ship and trust urself enough and him too and if u wanna enjoy the flirts n all communicate with him he might be keeping it formal cz he wudnt wanna make u uncomfortable.
How do i communicate it without sounding like a despo or a creep lol
And i have this feeling that he’s not really into it lately…
Umm u must be like best friends I don’t think it should be a problem, u shudnt let ur ego come in between u won’t sound despo u guys like each other and u both know so why are u beating around the bush…what is that love which is not expressed…don’t u feel what if God forbid something happens to either of u and this love u have is never expressed…we don’t have forever babygirl…we take waking up everyday granted, don’t!
Thanks for this :)
You’re welcome ☺️
You can be friends with benefits if that’s your thing.
Nope!! Not my thing :)
