Was talking to a guy met through online from same city we were talking I said him that I'm not beautiful he said doesn't matter a day before we video called he was on ok video call and after that on call that too yesterday I called he said he is with friends from then onwards no call no message reply and he came online and he uploaded a story too what should I do should I call or just leave???? And if leave how to distract myself

Go and find someone who understands the inner beauty buddy 😇 rest people are here too...anytime for suggestion 😇

Leave him.
Find someone else who loves you not your body, make you feel special.

Self Esteem

I am with a guy for the last 3and half years , 
for last two years we have been in long distance relationship ( different countries). I haven't seen him for two years now. it's really hard, also he is very controlling and insecure , tries to control what I wear etc . I just can't keep it up , our parents know and we decided to get married but now I am having second thoughts. Everything's seems wrong not only him but his family also tries to judge and change my life decisions ( career etc) . I want to break up but he is my comfort zone too ,plus my parents are very annoyed with my decision. I am absolutely lost.My parents consider me indecisive and that I am not taking any decision.I am scared and lost , what to do

Stress

I never could go like even 2 days without sh. Someone who was really close who knew everything about me including sh he asked me to talk to him whenever I felt like you know doing sh. I never used to talk and just go ahead and cut myself and when I cut I don't tell him about any of it and when he gets to know that I did it he used to be very disappointed in me but I didn't care.  And once I just was soo tired idk what happen that I went and told him about it I told him about the urge I was feeling at that moment. He tried his best to stop me but I am pretty stubborn so I wasn't listening to him then he told me that I could do whatever I wanted but he would never be proud of me if I did it and he went. I couldn't believe what I just had heard I was angry at him like idk why but I was angry at myself too cause I felt like shit cause I loved tht person soo much tht he was like a thread to my life holding me from attempting something bad. And I couldn't even make him proud?? then why would I even live?? I thought about it the whole night. I didn't do sh that night. I wasn't like proud of myself that I didn't do sh. But in the morning I told him that I didn't do it he didn't believe me at first I mean couldn't believe myself. When he believed he was soo proud of me that I was happy with myself. Now that person isn't in my life rn but he still loves me and I love him too but even if I didn't love him now I would never do anything to disappoint him and that's what is holding me from doing sh and it is been 27 days .

Self Harm

How long does it take to get over someone 

Breakup

here's why I think all he cares about is tits. he asked me to show my titties but I declined. he is a very persistant person he said titties are his weakness. so eventually I showed him one tit. we use to send each other kissing gifs he use to send me cuddling gifs. but everytime I send a cuddling gif  he doesn't send one back. over text I ask him to kiss me he does. but if I don't ask him he doesn't  I'm confused as to what we are. he sent a sticker on snap chat saying I love you. I told him I don't love you he said ok. then sent another one then he sent a sticker saying I  like like you. then he said I was his friend. I said I'm confused do you love me , like like me or are you my best friend?  he said guess I said best friend he said Ok. he said your with me sexually.  he said happy international friendship day which was saturday July 30th.  he sent a sticker saying friends forever he was acting as if we're friends when I never confirmed it. I thought oh we're friends now because  we weren't acting like friends before. I was sending him photos and videos of myself half naked.

Confusion

So I broke up with this guy and I feel terrible for breaking his heart. I just made this guy cry and I didn’t even shed a tear. I feel so guilty. I feel really really bad but it had to be done. I can’t fall asleep. I can’t forgive myself for doing that to him. What should I do? (I don’t want to get back with him)

So I've been taking to this guy for a year.i call him Al for now. For 7mths we were telling each other saying i love and talked about a family and kids. He didn't make things official becuase I had just broken up with my ex of 9yrs.... then Al's ex came back to his job. She confessed she missed him and that she wish things could be different. He mentioned that they even kissed. But it didn't feel the same and wants me. That were not in a relationship so it doesn't count. Now Al says that she is his best friend. When he wants his "me time" for himself they hangout. I get all upset and then he gets up set becuase I'm hounding him.... should I just stay away from him. He use to be more attentive to me and included me in everything. He said he still wants me but I can't believe him becuase I feel so betrayed. Again he states that we're not dating so it was okay.....

Anxiety

so i met this guy on bumble and he immediately was initiating sexual conversations and he knew i wanted something serious not short term or casual 

he doesn’t really know me and didn’t really put in alot of effort to either, plus he told me he wished i wanted something casual and he said he wasn’t ready for anything serious and so i was like if it’s not gonna be long term let’s just be friends lol. so then we still talked but it was just friendly convos 

so we talked for like 4 months just friendly and THEN he met another girl on a mini vacation and told me literally the night after repeating how he wouldn’t be ready till he was like 53 to get married he told me how for her he was super ready and would date her if she lived close by lmao that was like a wake up call and i kinda started distancing myself. 

im not the jealous type or anything if he found better he can have it and everything right like if he’s happy i won’t sit here and be bitter (and i wasnt!) BUT in that short time of a month he introduced her to his friends and they’ve facetimed and everything but i don’t even know who his friends are and we have only ever talked on text also to me he always said he didn’t want a gf cause he doesn’t talk to people everyday and he’d feel bad for ignoring his gf but i KNOWWW he’s texting her everyday lmao… 😐

 sooooooooo THEN she said she needed space from him and he texted me immediately how he wanted someone who wanted him unconditionally and how it didn’t matter if they broke up …. which told me he doesn’t care about losing me …. so then lmao….. i said “i hope it works out with ur other friend” and he said he’s not that into it anymore so … yeah… now he’s texting me …. and we don’t talk anymore but if he doesn’t start a convo there will not be one because i don’t wanna be around someone who isn’t scared to lose me lol. 

BUT I FEEL BAD NOT BEING RESPONSIVE ANNDD I miss talking to him lolll. idk. idk what to do.

like i wish he was just straight up from the beginning and told me NO!!! instead of stringing me along 😐 it would’ve been easier to deal with this lol. and it’s harddddd being just a friend cause i legitimately have the biggest crush on him lol. but going no contact is helping me get over it. plus his lack of effort is also helping me get over it but STILLL IDK WHAT TO DO!!! help. 































Relationships

I really like this one guy  idk if he feels the same about me but u think he does but thn he would've made efforts if he liked, like texting me and stuff. Guys do y'all do this to someone y'all really like? Like not texting them all the time ? Is it normal or am I just overthinkig about everything?help me  Clear my thoughts pls

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