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Anonymous

Wanting my guy to remember my menstrual cycle is too much? Wanting little extra care and consideration is too hard to give? Is remembering a date is that hard?

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Karthik @great_whisper_2

What to say

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Anonymous

Its okay

Anonymous

I did this for someone and that someone cheated and left.

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Anonymous

I m so sorry🫢

Anonymous

I cant comment on that.but yes, its okay if the guy doesnt remember.

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Anonymous

That sounds like a comment

Anonymous

Oh

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Anonymous

Nope, it’s the bare minimum. I would also want my guy to remember the same

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Anonymous

🥹♥️

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Anonymous

If he is not able to remember, just make remainder for him na, why to be sad, as we all know men are not good with dates generally…why to be sad, lets ignore their mistakes, and he will ignores yours, no one is perfect in this world neither me.
Sometimes what’s more imp is what he do after your reminder…the care, the importance, and efforts to make you smile and comfortable.

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Anonymous

Yeah no one is perfect and everyone is trying but thats not the argument that men are not good with date, i m sorry but this is wrong. I know some men in my life who are good with dates so pls dont encourage it. I know its common that people forget things but i guess there are alot of apps these days to get reminder of whats important

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Gagandeep K. @gagandeep_ka...

Hey, Hope you’re doing well😊

Can I share my thought over this…?

You began your experience with the word “wanting” right… and we all know there’s difference between NEEDS & WANTS.

Wants are something that are not the very necessary part of life but at the same time, these “wants” make us feel good about gestures. So we shouldn’t be too rigid to fulfil our wants and at the same time should not ignoring as well.

You can remind your guy if he forgets because sometimes people do forget (it’s not related to the gender though) and reminding them is not a bad thing or a thing to be sad about.

Maybe eventually he will learn thisssss.

So Important is not the DATE but the GRSTURE that you WANT from your guy after he gets to know your feeling :)

Take care :) stay hydrated:)

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Anonymous

I got your point and i know this sounds a bit dramatic but its been a long time since i know this person and i guess i just expected him to do these stuff without saying u know. He used to do this in the beginning but that was way in the past

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Gagandeep K. @gagandeep_ka...

Communication is the 🔑 :)
Bina kahe vo samaj jaye, harr bar aisa ni ho pata.

Take care.

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Anonymous

Agree.
Thanks and you take care too🫶🏼

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Anonymous

It’s never too much, nope it’s his duty to give extra care and concern on this days and it’s not hard to remember he can like note it down or like there is app for it he can do in it as well

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Anonymous

♥️

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Anonymous

If isn’t coming then just communicate if stilll not done then I guess better just go

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Anonymous

Its hard💔

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Anonymous

Why it is hard?

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Anonymous

Leaving and staying both is hard. It is just one thing and i am just hanging by a thread

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Anonymous

You should talk to him and make him understand and if he doesn’t then just it’s better to be off

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Anonymous

Yeahh

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Anonymous

If there is issue then let’s connect

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Anonymous

I know how this feels… we just want to be special ryt 😕 hoping you for the best siss… 🫂🫶

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Anonymous

Thankuu🥹

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Anonymous

Itna Vella hai kya tumhara “GUY” 😮‍💨

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