Wanna share something…I am gay and so far I have fallen for three guys and every damnn time I had to distance myself from them even if we were good friends because I knew there was no us…I don’t want to hurt anyone but staying with them even as friends was hurting me more…I just sometimes feel like if I can just let it br…just for once if I could have something…
Vick @1alternativeegirl
its soooo hard cuz u really wanna tell them but you know u shouldnt and want to still be friends. i bet you’ll figure it out.
I have figured it out maybe…distancing myself until we r strangers…it was like they were the perfect boyfriend material but just not for me…the care and efforts were there but just as friends
Vick @1alternativeegirl
then why dont u stay friends with them? u obviously care for them. I thin they will question you more about why ur distancing urself and those feelings will probably come out.
I have done it 2 times and now I have to do it once again…I care for him…a lot…he cares for me as well but only as a friend…I have to let him go if I wanna get over him…because like this he’s just unintentionally hurting because I know I can never have him
Vick @1alternativeegirl
ik what you mean. lemme know how this goes in the future. i went through this in the past and it really hurts.
Suree
Thanks a lot…it’s just that we could have been very good friends because I don’t normally find people like them who are genuinely caring and nice…sometimes I feel like it was unfair for them
Thanks and sure we can be friends
First of all… Thank u for asking I’m comfortable…and yes we can connect here or we can use instant gram…I have a fa ke ac there…for privacy reasons…hope u understand
Hi sorry for the late reply actually went to sleep…my ID is-- definitely_ur_guy
