Wanna make a confession
I’ve been h**king up with this girl online and she’s started to like me. I mean initially it was just about the usual stuff … she would call me when ever she wanted to do it. But in recent times … she’s being a bit more of… attached to me I would say?! Rather than attracted !!
Confused. I really don’t wanna pursue a romantic relationship as I’m not emotionally available for that at the moment. But she’s someone whom I do consider to be a good buddy. What to do? 🙂
I’ve made that clear multiple times but she just never stops …
And I met her on Omegle
And btw … the connection started purely for h**kups. She wanted to do it. Everyday.
Video calls.
We met on Omegle. Later exchanged our social media. And f**ked all day long
Dude … are u out of your mind??? Who hooks up with school girls? I ain’t a pedo bro
Yeah. It’s finee. I guess I’ll just leave her
some repy
VedforYou @allen_walker8
What?
Shabana S. @shabana_saiyye...
Hookup culture is taking best of this generation
She’s absolutely attached, leave her alone if you don’t wish to go forward
Bhavna P. @bhavna_pande
There’s nothing wrong with setting clear expectations in a relationship! In fact, it can actually help you build stronger and longer-lasting connections.
Consider having an open and honest conversation with this person, preferably in a neutral public space. This allows you to share your thoughts and expectations for the relationship in a comfortable and safe environment.
Actively listen to their perspective and create a space for open communication. Sharing your true feelings and hopes for the relationship, while also hearing their version, can be incredibly valuable.
Remember, honest and open communication is always key in building healthy and lasting relationships.
Here are some additional tips for setting expectations in your relationship:
• Be specific and clear about your needs and wants.
• Focus on shared values and goals.
• Be respectful and understanding of their perspective.
• Be willing to compromise and find common ground.
• Be prepared for the conversation to be uncomfortable, but know that it’s worth it for the health of the relationship.
If you need any additional guidance, feel free to reach out.
Best,
Counseling Psychologist Bhavna Pande
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