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Wanna know some advices through experiences here!

What’s the rudest thing you’ve ever said to someone? Do you regret it after that? If so, how do you deal with that regret?

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@heisenberg

Been there…first you think about did they deserve that if yes…don’t have any regrets
( My personal opinion )

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Simran @st1199

Hey!
Something different out of all posts and it puts me into thinking.

If you say something out of rage, anger, frustration you should regret it in the end but if you say something thinking they deserved it or that was the only possible way to deal with it you shouldn’t because you made that choice.

I never had such a major experience where I have regretted any of my words/decisions. And, if I have to talk about some minor issues which happen though isn’t counted in the rudest or regret category I say Sorry and accept my mistake. 🙆🌻

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Anonymous

We are all people. We all have feelings. Sometimes we say things because we feel sharply hurt when we actually need to stop and think before saying.
When I was a kid I lied a big thing to my father and he taught me a lesson by not talking to me for a few months (he was really offended by this). I was stupid and I learnt it. I knew it couldn’t be that way and I sincerely apologized after it and everything got back to normal.

Another example is that we had an argument with my partner. And I felt so much hurt that I said something that made him feel depressed for several days. Of course I regret saying that thing. I did have a point though. But nevertheless, I think that you should never hurt someone who you love (whether it’s a family, partner, friend or colleague). It does happen for some reasons for many people.

I think you need to understand. You have a right to feel that way while you are saying these things. Even though it’s better learn how to not say such things and learn to be patient by giving yourself some time to cool down and think it over. When it happens it happens. It is absolutely normal to regret. Of course you regret this if you did it to a person who matters (and if it was not for that person, that it wouldn’t make sense. It would be just being rude to other people and I do not respect that. Sometimes a stranger also matters to you).

How you deal with it? You only have to live with it. When you do things there is nothing left, because it has already happened and you will not change it. You can make it up to people, try to change your behavior, try to become a better person. It’s always a good thing. Apologizing is really important. After all, everything will be fine. What you said will stay in the past and the present will be good. But the point is that you will always have to live with it, no matter how good you’re with the person, even if that person forgets about the incident. It’s just a part of live.

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Anonymous

*a part of life

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Anonymous

Omg. Thank you very much for spending your time replying to my post! I truly appreciate it, and will gladly take your advice!
Hope you have a blessed day!

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