Very disturbed. I was in relationship for 2 yrs ,3 months ago we broke up and i was the reason(kind of) so she left me, and few days back a guy texted me saying she isn’t happy, 2 days back I texted her ‘Hi’ so the rply came ‘what’ and I didn’t rply and after few minutes rply came asking money (which I borrowed from her when we were in relationship) , and a day after she called telling me to meet her or give money, after few arguments I rejected both(meeting her and giving her money back) before which said I’ll give her back, so she gave the phone to his guy frns and they started bullying me very rudely!..
And she again asked to meet her. I asked why?
She said it’s about us and she wanted to talk about us.
Idk what to do. 😓
Did you do something to annoy her ?
Noo
Yes yes, I refused to give her money back,
I said that in anger man, I’ll definitely give the money back
Sanket @sanket
Its the second time I’m seeing the same post. You havent made up your mind to give her money back?
You yourself have mentioned the reason behind the breakup, which is you!
Now you sound phishy to me. Do not want to return money, do not want to either talk to her, you are the reason behind the breakup, dont have guts to face her.
Whats running in your mind?
And here you are seeking for help. Its very clear. Give her money back and do talk to her. Dont be a negative charater
Money isnt the matter yaar, I said that I’ll give back in a month, bt still she called and some guys talked to me, so I pissed of and refused to give back
It’s just Im not understanding what she’s wants to say!!
She’s giving mixed signals,
Sometimes yes and sometimes no😑
Reason like I said something intentionally hoping that she might get serious in her studies, bt she chose to leave me, she left me and I begged etc , fuck this man idk who’s the reason, we both are hurt
Sanket @sanket
Ok calm down. Its pretty simple here.
You are definitely gonna return her amount, with respect, I believe in you here.
Now if you are receiving mixed signals then isn’t it your job to figure it out? How?
Just be simple and straight forward. As you said that you said something serious to her for her own betterment, is that 100% correct? If yes then I would say you were encouraging her for good work and she didn’t realize it so don’t stress on this. Moreover if you have feelings for here then yeah get back to her. If not still meet her and listen what she has to say, what if she genuinely is not feeling good? Be gentle with her and speak to her.
Whatsoever your decision is, you are writing her something saying “I will be returning your money, that’s a promise. I was pissed off when a third person came in for the internal matters. Sorry for the rude behaviour, rest assured, I will be returning your money, just provide me some time. Regarding the meet, I’ll let you know if I’m comfortable. Thanks”. Is this suitable enough?
She was your GF once, respect this fact, howsoever her behaviour is, dont hurt her more. I believe you are understandable too and you will be nice with her here onwards. Feel free to ping if help is required. Do let us know what happens next 😄
Thanks man!
Bhai money is not the matter here! I asked her money as a debt in the first place And that too gift her that she don’t know, i gifted her iPad Pro!! Okay? I needed extra 10k she’s doing upsc preparation and I’m doing MBBS, don’t disrespect without knowing, money doesn’t matter
Yes she’s was not serious, I compared her to a other girl intentionally knowing that would hurt her!! Now she’s serious but not with me!
I’m happy and sad
Sanket @sanket
I got a little pissed too, things are pretty straight forward and you raised it again, sorry for the inappropriate tone. You do not have to give details about the reason behind the credit.
Hope you handle it calmly and gently. Anyways the profession of medical demands calm and stable mind, and you fumbled up on such pesky matter? Kyaa doctor banega re tu!
Just kidding 😁 it happens
Hey man, it’s a long story bt yeah I’ll brief it,
We were schoolmates, she had a best friend and they separated for some reasons, and that bestfrnd of her is my frnd too, and they always competed with each other. And that bestfrnd is doing well in her MBBS, bt my girl was not so serious about upsc, so I compared my girl to her bestfrnd
I shouldn’t have done it, ik
Bt the result is good, I’m happy
She challenged me that shell crack upsc, I’m sure she’ll do that
Why not just repay the money you borrowed from her?
