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Pari @pari123

Very complicated love story. Need someone to hear and give suggestions

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Pari @pari123

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Current status is we want to continue with each other but certainly can’t leave our respective partners. It sounds pathetic i know. But we’re so in love like he’d skip work just to have breakfast with me at some restaurant. Or to take me shopping. I find myself getting off the bed excitedly on the most depressing days, if he calls me to meet. I don’t like cheating. But it feels like we both want to have a baby together. I hate this situation. How to stop this? I’ve stopped talking to him atleast 7 times for months at end, but he finds a way back or i find a way back to him. And we just go nuts. He’s older but he feels perfect to me.

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Anonymous
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Does it feel ok to u to cheat on ur current partner for him.
U should take a decision for what u want

Pari @pari123

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It doesn’t feel good. It feels really bad.

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Anonymous
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U should talk this out with ur current partner.
Otherwise it would be worse.

Pari @pari123

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Yeah but my current partner is very different from me. I don’t feel the love, the spark… nothing

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Anonymous
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Then why are u with him.
U should end it with proper understanding.

Pari @pari123

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It’s complicated. Neither of us can leave our partners. Personal, family reasons

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Anonymous
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Are u happy from it?

Pari @pari123

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I’m helpless. The person I love, I can’t be with him. The person I’m with, i don’t love, I can’t love him actually he’s just a strong headed insecure patriarch.

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Anonymous
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See there your whole life in front of u .
Are u willing to enjoy it or want to regret it.
At last its ur choice.
Just think what u want.

Pari @pari123

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You make sense. But I’m scared of taking big decision.

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Anonymous
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Dont take sudden decision.
Take your time.
Just think carefully bcoz u shouldn’t regret ur decision.

Pari @pari123

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I know. He also tells me the same. He says leave your partner of you’re not happy. Live alone. Make it work.

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Anonymous
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See sometimes we have to make harsh decisions.
Do that which makes u happy.
Dont think of any other things or what people will say.
Its ur life ur decision fuck people.

Pari @pari123

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True. But i feel so confused and broken, i don’t even know what I want anymore. Thanks for your advice though.

Tejas Shelar @smash789

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Say it.

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Anonymous
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You be like* aao sunao pyar ki ek kahani πŸ‘€

Pari @pari123

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I’m new here. Is everything supposed to be like this, out there for everyone to read?

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Anonymous
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Yeah! Everything is okay! Just spoke up dear!

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Anonymous
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Hum bhi toh sune kya kahani hai

Pari @pari123

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Tu judge karega pakka aise vibes aarahi hai πŸ˜„

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Anonymous
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Judge karke mujhe kya milega.
Main toh bas sunna chahta tha

Pari @pari123

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Ok

Pari @pari123

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It’s a bit complicated

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Anonymous
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Its ok.
Complicated things can have simple solutions.πŸ™‚

Pari @pari123

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☺️

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Anonymous
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πŸ˜€πŸ˜€

Pari @pari123

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It’s a he

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Anonymous
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Is it a college love story

Pari @pari123

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No not college. Started in college though

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Anonymous
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What happened now

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Anonymous
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For how long it lasts?

Pari @pari123

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Actually this guy is much older. We had a on off thing for past 7 years.

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Anonymous
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Was he in the same class?

Pari @pari123

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No he’s much older. 8 years. I was in college when it stared

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Anonymous
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Where did u met this guy?

Pari @pari123

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Family friends

Suresh Ranka @sureshrankaw...

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Ohk no what’s the issue now

Pari @pari123

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It got extremely complicated. We’re both committed. But we love each other like your heart skips a beat when you see them types

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Anonymous
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So whats the current status

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Anonymous
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Let it be.
Everyone can start a convo

Pari @pari123

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I just typed a long msg nit it says it’s under review.

Pari @pari123

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What’s unapproved thought? How long it takes to get approved of at all?

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Anonymous
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Dont know new to this.
Just share it in small simple sentences.

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