Pari @pari123
Very complicated love story. Need someone to hear and give suggestions
Pari @pari123
Current status is we want to continue with each other but certainly canβt leave our respective partners. It sounds pathetic i know. But weβre so in love like heβd skip work just to have breakfast with me at some restaurant. Or to take me shopping. I find myself getting off the bed excitedly on the most depressing days, if he calls me to meet. I donβt like cheating. But it feels like we both want to have a baby together. I hate this situation. How to stop this? Iβve stopped talking to him atleast 7 times for months at end, but he finds a way back or i find a way back to him. And we just go nuts. Heβs older but he feels perfect to me.
Does it feel ok to u to cheat on ur current partner for him.
U should take a decision for what u want
Pari @pari123
It doesnβt feel good. It feels really bad.
U should talk this out with ur current partner.
Otherwise it would be worse.
Pari @pari123
Yeah but my current partner is very different from me. I donβt feel the love, the sparkβ¦ nothing
Then why are u with him.
U should end it with proper understanding.
Pari @pari123
Itβs complicated. Neither of us can leave our partners. Personal, family reasons
Are u happy from it?
Pari @pari123
Iβm helpless. The person I love, I canβt be with him. The person Iβm with, i donβt love, I canβt love him actually heβs just a strong headed insecure patriarch.
See there your whole life in front of u .
Are u willing to enjoy it or want to regret it.
At last its ur choice.
Just think what u want.
Pari @pari123
You make sense. But Iβm scared of taking big decision.
Dont take sudden decision.
Take your time.
Just think carefully bcoz u shouldnβt regret ur decision.
Pari @pari123
I know. He also tells me the same. He says leave your partner of youβre not happy. Live alone. Make it work.
See sometimes we have to make harsh decisions.
Do that which makes u happy.
Dont think of any other things or what people will say.
Its ur life ur decision fuck people.
Pari @pari123
True. But i feel so confused and broken, i donβt even know what I want anymore. Thanks for your advice though.
Tejas Shelar @smash789
Say it.
You be like* aao sunao pyar ki ek kahani π
Pari @pari123
Iβm new here. Is everything supposed to be like this, out there for everyone to read?
Yeah! Everything is okay! Just spoke up dear!
Hum bhi toh sune kya kahani hai
Pari @pari123
Tu judge karega pakka aise vibes aarahi hai π
Judge karke mujhe kya milega.
Main toh bas sunna chahta tha
Pari @pari123
Ok
Pari @pari123
Itβs a bit complicated
Its ok.
Complicated things can have simple solutions.π
Pari @pari123
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Pari @pari123
Itβs a he
Is it a college love story
Pari @pari123
No not college. Started in college though
What happened now
For how long it lasts?
Pari @pari123
Actually this guy is much older. We had a on off thing for past 7 years.
Was he in the same class?
Pari @pari123
No heβs much older. 8 years. I was in college when it stared
Where did u met this guy?
Pari @pari123
Family friends
Suresh Ranka @sureshrankaw...
Ohk no whatβs the issue now
Pari @pari123
It got extremely complicated. Weβre both committed. But we love each other like your heart skips a beat when you see them types
So whats the current status
Let it be.
Everyone can start a convo
Pari @pari123
I just typed a long msg nit it says itβs under review.
Pari @pari123
Whatβs unapproved thought? How long it takes to get approved of at all?
Dont know new to this.
Just share it in small simple sentences.