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Anonymous

Umm actually i broke up with my boyfriend. He was actually my bestfriend and we started liking eachother and we started dating. Its been almost 3 years and we broke up i feel horrible idk what to do i feel like a shit rn and i feel likee it all happened because of me i took him for granted. I asked him for breakup and now i am getting such shitty thoughts. We had a talk earlier and he said that he did everything he could to make me stay and said not to worry and here i am feeling so low and regret. Should i go and talk to him? Likee to get back together and stuff?? I feel so horrible

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Anonymous

When did you breakup?

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Anonymous

Yesterday

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Anonymous

Then its normal set of thoughts. What exactly made you breakup though?

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Anonymous

Some unreasonable stuff idk whats wrong with me i just get mad at unreasonable things and do worst things and this time i realised it late

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suraj kumar @008sr

Yes you should talk!! You were friends also!! And it’s your call for relationship because you can only decide whether you want this or not

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Anonymous

Yess i would love to go but the thing that is stopping me is what if i get things worse after that ? Like if i get together with him and if i couldnt make him happy then ?? Idk these kind of thoughts haunts me i have hurted him so many times that i hate myself

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suraj kumar @008sr

You’ll make him happy or not AND you’ll be happy or not with this relationship , both thing should have equal importance!!

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Anonymous

I will be happy ofcc i will try my best actually i am going to join med school and uk how busy it is and i am just afraid that our relationship will get bad because of lack of communication but then i also think that i love him i will do anything to make it work

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suraj kumar @008sr

Cool!! So you go and talk!!! And make him clear everything!! And don’t overthink about future like how you’ll manage after starting med!! It happens with everyone!! You guys should have such mutual understanding then it’ll work smoothly

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Anonymous

Really? Thanks yaar idk but this made me feel relieved

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suraj kumar @008sr

Yes my dear!! At a point of time everyone become busy!! But it doesn’t mean the relationship won’t work! It only works with trust, feelings and mutual understanding!! Doesn’t matter how much time you’re giving!!

esabella @enke_123

Yess exactlyy this is something i needed to hear. Thank you so much i will give my 100% !!

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suraj kumar @008sr

Stay happy and stay strong!! Keep smiling and best wishes!!

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Anonymous

Thank you so muchh!! Glad we talked :)

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suraj kumar @008sr

😊😊… you can connect anytime!! This platform is made for this!!

esabella @enke_123

Yess suree ;)

Sayali @sayaliii3

Meet him first . Tell him everything whatever your feeling . Tell him you feel sorry for whatever happen . Things will take time . But if he love you he will forgive you .

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Anonymous

Umm okay this is better ig i will meet him

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Akanksha Dash @22noor

If you love him then talk, and if you have fallen out of love then don’t. Don’t be with a person just cause you’re guilty it will make things worse.

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Anonymous

Umm okay thank you for your opinion

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