Traumatic. I’m 29 years old and had a bad marriage. I have a 5 year old son and I’ve hated living with my parents since I have known. This morning, my mother pinched my butt. Could seem like a nothing to most people from the outside, but I can’t stop crying. I’m not sure if this is some sort of a trauma response. I’ve been beaten a lot - like a lotttttttttt - when I was a child, but I also had some incidents with my ex-husband which involved my butt being abused. My mother thinks this as playful and keeps doing it - to her fucking 29 year old daughter - who also doubles as the house maid and the cook. I want to run away from here, but I can’t. My divorce is not through yet and I can’t step anywhere until that is final. What do you do when you go to a place like this in life?
niti agti @aragni
Confront her in a cool manner. Tell her that u are not comfortable about it. Or about anything.
I don’t know what u have planned further but be financially independent asap. Build ur life again. And dont think of urself as a maid or cook. Think of this as a bad phase. Survived this long u will further. U r strong start standing up for urself. It will earn u few more taunts and stuff, but start making urself and ur mental health a priority. Coz that will start affecting ur kid as well.
Lots of courage
