That @notaqueen
Tomorrow is my first day of new college in new city. And just now i ended call after fighting with my boyfriend (we kinda solve everything) but still Iโm upset about it. It feels like Iโm very difficulty to be loved and heโs going through many hurt to love me. He said so many hurtful words and now he said things like heโs proud of me and Iโm very smart and intelligent. But he always used to say opposite of this whenever we used to fight. And now i feel like itโs lie and itโs hurting me and i feel very exhaust everyday. He demotivated me and said such mean things that now i canโt even stay happy with him either. Heโs also very insecure about this whole new college in new city thing that heโs controlling me.
Joy @joyforlife
Stay away from toxic peoples. It will give you mental peace for life
U r not contractually obligated to stay with him or somethingโฆhe canโt control uโฆif u r truly not happyโฆ walk awayโฆif its okay and solvableโฆtry to solve itโฆ otherwise thereโs a whole world out there
Thats Great He loves you a lot and after some time its makes you feels uncomfortable due opposite words โฆ if you both had a long relationship then try to solve or if will be automatically and then make him fill insecure (you had find new bestfriend in the city /college and may he will com back or see her real face โฆ God Bless You ๐๏ธ
Sanket @sanket
You can also view it as true, we all have both sides, things which said were good are the ones which were felt during the good times and the baad or hurtful things are the origins of the mistakes and anger.
Both are legit
Also notice that your partner has been able to perceive such things so itโs a good trait to have
Moreover loving any person these days have become so tough because one or the other wants to be independent and a person besides wrapped as a partner
Once think about whatever he said, where is he coming from, why he feels soโฆ