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That @notaqueen

Tomorrow is my first day of new college in new city. And just now i ended call after fighting with my boyfriend (we kinda solve everything) but still Iโ€™m upset about it. It feels like Iโ€™m very difficulty to be loved and heโ€™s going through many hurt to love me. He said so many hurtful words and now he said things like heโ€™s proud of me and Iโ€™m very smart and intelligent. But he always used to say opposite of this whenever we used to fight. And now i feel like itโ€™s lie and itโ€™s hurting me and i feel very exhaust everyday. He demotivated me and said such mean things that now i canโ€™t even stay happy with him either. Heโ€™s also very insecure about this whole new college in new city thing that heโ€™s controlling me.

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Joy @joyforlife

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Stay away from toxic peoples. It will give you mental peace for life

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U r not contractually obligated to stay with him or somethingโ€ฆhe canโ€™t control uโ€ฆif u r truly not happyโ€ฆ walk awayโ€ฆif its okay and solvableโ€ฆtry to solve itโ€ฆ otherwise thereโ€™s a whole world out there

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Thats Great He loves you a lot and after some time its makes you feels uncomfortable due opposite words โ€ฆ if you both had a long relationship then try to solve or if will be automatically and then make him fill insecure (you had find new bestfriend in the city /college and may he will com back or see her real face โ€ฆ God Bless You ๐Ÿ•Š๏ธ

Sanket @sanket

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You can also view it as true, we all have both sides, things which said were good are the ones which were felt during the good times and the baad or hurtful things are the origins of the mistakes and anger.
Both are legit
Also notice that your partner has been able to perceive such things so itโ€™s a good trait to have
Moreover loving any person these days have become so tough because one or the other wants to be independent and a person besides wrapped as a partner

Once think about whatever he said, where is he coming from, why he feels soโ€ฆ

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