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Himanshu @himanshujangra

Today my father beat me a lot after drinking alcohol… I was feeling very restless so I sat alone in the room and started studying, then he came after drinking alcohol and started beating me. They hit me so hard that I got bruises somewhere on my body… 🥺🙁

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Anonymous

Does this happen often? What’s your age?

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Himanshu @himanshujangra

Yes 2 or 3 times a week… My age is 21…

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Anonymous

It’s something really serious. You need to speak about this to your parents. Did you never try to confront your father after he is out of the drunk state?

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Himanshu @himanshujangra

Bhai mai unse kabhi khul ke baat kr hi nhi pata… Jo insan nashe mei itna marta hai… Hosh mei hoga to pta nhi kitna marega… 🥺🙁🙁

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Anonymous

Come on!! Aise hamesha sehen karna possible thodi na hai!! You probably need to earn enough for yourself first and then confront him. Taaki ghar se bahar nikalwa bhi de to koi problem na ho. Jokes aside, don’t take his actions lightly. Aaj he is hitting you, tomorrow at your position it might be your mother and then it might be your wife.

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Himanshu @himanshujangra

Bhai mai govt officer hu… Gram Sachiv… Fir bhi papa marte hai… Mummy ki traf dekhta hu unhe kuch kah nhi pata… Isiliye sab chup chap sahan krleta hu… Transfer ke liye head ko letter to bheja hai… Dekho ab kab transfer milega… 🙁🙁

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Anonymous

You shouldn’t rely on the thought ki transfer mile uske baad shift honge. Since I have read ki your mom is also not happy with him. So better hoga if you confront your dad and stay separate. Otherwise your family will be nothing but a toxic family.

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Himanshu @himanshujangra

Bhai aaj ki kahani nhi hai… Unhonee har birthday pe mara hai… 🙁 abhi 4 din phle mera birthday tha or unhone bahot rulaya 🥺

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Anonymous

Pehli baat is you need to understand ki you aren’t a baccha!! You earn also. So what’s stopping you from confronting? And you could even threaten him. Why are you so scared of him? If he does something that he shouldn’t then threaten him or leave your home.

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Himanshu @himanshujangra

Pta nhi bhai sahab kya kru… Bahot hi jyada uljha hua hu… Bahot pareshaan hu mn krta hai apne aap ko hi marlu… 🙁

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Anonymous

Aise hath pe hath rakhkar baithe rehna to sahi nhi hai

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Himanshu @himanshujangra

Kuch smjh nhi aa rha bhai sahab mujhe. 🙁

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Anonymous

I hope time heals everything

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Himanshu @himanshujangra

I hope so ye din jaldi aajaye bhai sahab
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Anonymous

Don’t expect miracles. You yourself have to take action.

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Himanshu @himanshujangra

Haa bhai sahab…

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Himanshu @himanshujangra

Haa kai baar to unko dhakka marke bhagna pdta hai mujhe… 🙁

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Himanshu @himanshujangra

Mummy ko pahle hi problem hai sister… To mai unhe kuch nhi btata… Or mujhe khud bahut problem hai… Jaise chest infection, liver infection, intestines infection, Anxiety or panic disorder, migraine, Bone Cervical… Fir bhi papa jara bhi nhi sochte… 🙁🥺

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Himanshu @himanshujangra

Sister kya baat karu aise insan se… Jo nashe mei itna marta hai… To socho hosh mei hoga to kitna marega mujhe…Isiliye kuch nhi bolta unhe sister. 🙁🥺

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Himanshu @himanshujangra

Mummy ke sath to unhone or bhi bura kiya sister… Meri mom ke hote huye bhi unhone affair kiya or uske sath physical relation banaya…Jab mummy ko pta laga in sab ka to mummy ne papa se baat krna band krdiya or mummy depression mei chali gai… Or unhone pahle Bahut problem hai…

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Himanshu @himanshujangra

Mai government officer hu sister… Gram sachiv hu sister… Par mummy ghar se jane ko tyar nhi… Bs apne aap ko kamre mei band rkhti hai jati bhi nhi to kaise jau unke bina kahi… 🙁

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Alana @selenophile_013

Oh my god. I can’t believe such people still exist, WB your mother? doesn’t she say something to him?

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Himanshu @himanshujangra

Meri mummy unse baat nhi krti sister… Meri mom ke alawa bhi unka affair tha jb mummy ko pta laga to unhone papa se baat krna band krdiya. Or mummy depression mei chali gai… Or unhe or bhi problem hai sister… Isiliye unhe kuch nhi kahta… 🥺🙁

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ii @ii___

Hey !!
I never knew this shit is happening in ur life…
U can share more
We will try to find a solution

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Himanshu @himanshujangra

Koi solution nhi hai buddy… Mai bs apne transfer ka wait krr rha hu bs vo jaldi mil jaye…

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ii @ii___

But it will take a long time dude

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Himanshu @himanshujangra

Ha buddy… 🙁

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Anonymous

My Dad is an alcoholic too. He beat me too once, but I see it happening more so often with my mom and my sister.
I am very unattached to him and to be honest, If your father only beats you when he is drunk, it means he can’t do that sober. Alcohol is liquid courage and it takes away all that nervousness.
So my suggestion is, hold your ground, Confront your dad. Kya hoga, maarte hi toh aa Rahe Hai, aur maar lenge. Itni maar khaayi hai. Phir, you tell him that you won’t stand for this beating anymore. He doesn’t value you, and you need to make him do that. Hold on to your ground

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Himanshu @himanshujangra

Dar lagta hai sister Bahot… Jo nashe mei itna mar sakta hai voo hosh mei kitna marega… Kahi ve mummy ko nuksan na pahocha de… 🙁

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