Today is my 2nd anniversary with my BF… I’m really happy that we made it till here but i often get scared to loose him. I always get this feeling that he is not as strongly attached to me as i am to him and will might get influenced by a much more pretty and attractive girl then me. Tbh…His class has lots of pretty girls and it always makes me so insecured of it. I dont know what to do anymore. Its a special day today and yet im thinking about this stuff. WTH!!
HELP ME PLS!!
Lady bee @ladybee
Awwwww congrats 👏 but also awww to feel so insecure on a special day for the both of you…im sorry you going through this …its hard cause I’m also insecure but these females are not pretty lol…I learnt my man likes big woman…I always felt like I am a big girl but im not im just thick and I love the way I look…but im insecure cuz his taste is big woman…is that twisted now 😔 so I know what u mean…idk what kind of advice I can give u but to say if he’s wit u all the time…hes the one he wants to spend time wit shouldn’t that make u feel secure ? It should , it shouldn’t it ? 😔
Im sorry to hear about ur relationship. my guy is a year elder to me. And we started to date just before COVID started. After that even though our houses are 15minutes away, it feels like we are in different countries (lets say long-distance relo).
And what if he is just dating me just cuz he wants a gf and doesnt wants to be left alone and when he finds a new hot chick, what if he leaves me. We barely spended time together as couples and did couply things together. And i have seen the girls whom he hang around and chats with and they are way way prettier than me. :(
Lady bee @ladybee
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Awww lady I have also done a long distance relationship n that shit is hard…but yall live 15mins away and u feel like u a long distance shit…Damm I’m sorry lady…relationship in general is hard…idk why we gotta feel some kind of insecurity …stay strong lady
Ty for motivation!! I feel a little better finally when this story is out of my chest.
And really a VERY BIG THANK YOU TO YOU who motivated me that what i feel is not a wrong feeling.
Lady bee @ladybee
Let me clear something quick…I didn’t. Mean to sound like big girls are ugly…I meant the girls I have met that my man use to date chill fck wit
.they actually real ugly looking , but every time we brake he goes calling these females…so im insecure because I aint the big size he usually goes for
Yeahh i got it… Im happy that someone can atleast relate how i am feeling rn and had been feeling for a long while. I thought maybe i wont get this thought today but im still getting it thats why i came here and shared it.
Lady bee @ladybee
🙏 I believe is our insecurities…when I’m single I’m like unstoppable ppl can say whatever they want n I know I will be walking out straight wit a big damn smile on…I knew I was the shit lol…but in a relationship idk how can a human can make the other cry n hurt but the ones that hurt still stays 😔🤦♀️💔
yeahh exactly… Its definetly really hard!! But we know our power when we are out of chains from this relo. Power to you!!
Lady bee @ladybee
🙏 to you too
wish i could… hey can we connect pls. I might need your advice now pls
