Today I’m angry and sad both. Which is more I struggle to define.
My mom confessed today that she has purposely not cooking for me and making sure I don’t have anything to eat. Not like snack or anything just basic food like roti sabzi. She thinks this will cause my weight loss.
Honestly I don’t have any issues with my weight but my parents do. Even though I’m highly accomplished individual, they keep insulating me all the time. Becoz of pandemic I was forced to live with them and it’s almost been an year and on days are really rough.
I can totally understand what u must be going through because I have been in the same situation. But let me tell you , it will get better and it’s all in your hands . Work hard and succeed in life to the point where you can be on your own. Focus on achieving your goals and try to distract your mind by doing things that you love. And please take care of your health, skipping meals can be very bad for the body, u need the nutritions to stay healthy.
Okay first of all, begin with loving yourself so much that no one can ever change your ways. Your parents don’t like you being overweight, so just sit them down, tell them they are wrong. This doesn’t mean that you’ll be disrespecting them, even they are humans and they make mistakes and you need to point that out. Being underweight or overweight is something that is superficial and kind of an image related issue which has nothing to do with what you are as a human. They need to understand some things which they possibly cannot unless you bring them face to face with these problems and the effects of these on you.
