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asthetic @anynomous

To be straightforward… I want someone i can call mine… Lean on… be with… After my last breakup 4 years ago… I never dated anyone… I am almost forgetting what being in love feells like… I also feel like i am almost wasting my youth years sittting at home alone doing nothing fun in my life being almost 21 now… And use to be a 15 year old who wanted to try each and everything and to have all the fun i could when i turn 18 and life afterwards… But nothing’s going according to plan…

Also going on the dating apps feels so desperate… Which i am not maybe… Or maybe i am… But still don’t wanna try Dating apps and force myself to be with someone… As i am a person who always expect things more naturally… Which now i think is not gonna happen for me in this life time😩…
What should i do?

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Anonymous

I think you should just focus on your career since love comes unexpectedly you never know

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asthetic @anynomous

That’s what i am doing … And it has not affected my career in any way…in fact i gave my last exam yesterday and will complete my degree if i pass…But i am fed up of waiting now… And i also feel like i am wasting my time where other people of my age are having all kind of fun…

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Anonymous

It’s okay let them you can also have fun don’t try to find love it will never come to you like that you just become more desperate just enjoy your life with your friends travel party explore

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asthetic @anynomous

Ok… So where do we get friends? 🤧 coz my college life was a fail… And i shifted cities recently… So got none… Only long distance friend’s …what i have!

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Raj Chauhan @raj1403

Career, hobby, physical and mental health, become the best version of yourself.

Good things will automatically follow 👍

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asthetic @anynomous

That’s what i am doing… Trust me… I don’t think about these things all the time… If it sounded like…
But you know there are some moments where you really think about the life you wanted and the life you are living… So it’s just what came to my mind at 3 in midnight…

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Deep @themonk

How did you overcome from your past relationship?

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asthetic @anynomous

Welll… I had a worst case scenario… So it took me almost 2-2.5 years to overcome it and forget about him…
As now i believe time heals everything… That has worked for me too!

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Deep @themonk

Now waiting is online option for me…😅

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fiction @letter

You have always loved people! You love your parents you love your friends you love your siblings( if there are any) there must be at least one person in the world whom you love! You just want to try more of it with different people, that’s why love is the best feeling the more you get the more you crave!

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rahul jain @rahuljain12

Spend your time with your family … love sab baste of time hai 💔💔 5 years se tadap ra hu i know 💔

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Amit Dipoo @_rahul

My msg got in rechecking.
Check your dm

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Anonymous

Not sure if you found someone to call them yours, but we can be friends if you like…

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