To all the teenagers girls… I want to suggest u something yr which is very important lessons… I regret of not knowing that things in my teen age…
1)- hmesha apni man ki suno… duniya dari ki bare me jyada Mt socho…
2)- overthinking kbhi Mt Krna jyada nhi to tumhe le dubegi ye overthinking…
3)- hmesha goal decide krke rkho aur uske hisab se action lo… sahi stream choose kro apne interest k according…
4)- love k chakkar me pdo but kbhi bhi usko 1st priority mt do study se jyada…
5)- tumhe hr chiz krni chahiye school life me coz bad me regret hoti h ki shyness k chakkar me kuc nii kr pai
6)- respect ur parents… but don’t follow their every decision for u if u feel u want something else…
7)- shyness khatam kro… fear khatam kro… confidence lao. Boys k attention k pixe mt bhago… if boys distracting u from studies…
8)- mind apna clear rkho aur hmesha future ka socho, past ka nhi…
9)- enjoy kro friends bnao… memories create kro… but negative aur jealous people se dur rho… u don’t know jealous people can do anything to harm u… so jealous people ko identify kro apne friend group se aur htao unko…
10)- don’t overthink or stress about anything… everything will be fine… don’t think about others too much… .
11)- I was introvert and i had OCD also so overthinking, stress and intrusive thoughts ne kharab krdi meri life… mujhe smjhane wala bhi koi nii tha… 😔
Mai nii chahti ki aur ldkiyo ya ldko ka life kharab ho OCD k wajah se ya immaturity k wajah se… aur hn apni problems apne har ek friends ko batate Mt firo jo trustworthy na ho…
sirf unhi ko btao jo tumhari real me care krte h…
Itna kuch woh bhi kisi teenager ladki ko kbhi smjh nhi ayega becoz they don’t have experience and they dont believe in it so let them choose what they want
Ha unko 1 - 1 point smjhana hoga
Woh ek point bhi smjh le toh i think iss whole app ka hona meaningful ho jayega but logically we r talking about teenage time when hormones on peak and adrenaline pumps through blood with full peak so that age agr tum kisi teenager ko yeh sb smjhaoge i guess he/she calls u lunatic which is quite logical through there point of view
Harmonal peak is not problem… harmonal pic is beneficial coz they can explore new things and have excitement to new things… but always lost on thoughts and procastinating studies is problem… just like I used to do… main my problems was coz of OCD I think I m not clear other teenagers or girls feels same like me or not… I was always stucked in intrusive thoughts for other people…
Uk OCD is something which make your mind cloudy with thoughts and i think controlling thoughts is quite difficult even for a normal human who don’t have OCD and about hormones they drives us for pleasure and we all did things during that time which r not needed so all i say that time mind thought everything r uncontrollable and pleasure is all u seek
Yaar samjha to du lekin koi samjhega nahi bolenge ki faltu ka gyan de raha hai bas
Absolutely right… it’s hard for me to stop my thoughts… and repetitive behaviour… anxiety and stress .
Yeah things r not good for you and you suffer a lot due to OCD which is quite hard to deal for any human and still you find a way that is the way of life we find a way and then live and wish you very best
Pranav @pranav888
Powerful shares! It seems that you have been through a lot
Yes🙃
Fir bhi kisi ko bolo n ki mene apna life stress me gujara h fir bhi they don’t believe only I know what things I suffered coz of my mental health issues…
Pranav @pranav888
No one understands anything until then they go through those situations! And agar they don’t believe matlab you stayed strong during those tough stressful moments! Which is a big win for you!
Pranav @pranav888
Would you like to share some incidents/situations where things were difficult and how did you come out from those situations?
I was stucked in only only one thought for whole one year…
Pranav @pranav888
Which is?
In ninth class… the story started when I was in 7th standard… ek senior boy ne mujhe dekha then I started overthinking about that scenario… I started liking him … by overthinking about him… for 1 year he went migration in another school for 1 year… that year I was in 8th… whole 8th class I used to think about him and also think that he loves me too… but when he came after 1 year migration from another school… I stared him… he was behaving uncomfortable and unknown… then I realised from his side that is not same case like me… so I stared him that day for long time… so after summer vacation… the senior boy came in my class and stared me angrily… so I thought he thinks that I love him in my thoughts… but I was like if he has not feelings for me so I don’t care too… but his angry stare look made me belief that he thought about me that I follow him for love this thing make my self respect down on my mind so I made decision to tell him directly that I m not interested in u that day I was stared u by mistake so don’t think I follow u… but I hadn’t enough courage to tell him this directly… every day i think he and his one friend would be make fun of me for loving him… and this is lowering my respect as class topper every day every min I thought this to how to tell him I don’t care about him… but I couldn’t tell him for whole one year atlast I told him and found again that he again don’t know about anything like staring loving following things by Me… I was shocked for wasting my 1 year in one thought… it’s foolishness I know but coz I had OCD so it was hard for me to get of that one intrusive thought… OCD spoiled my whole school life… ye to sirf 8 se 9 th ki bat thi… OCD ne meri 10th to 12th bhi kha dali yr… m maths chahti thi but OCD k wajah se mujhe peripheral vision OCD tha to m side vision me bethe ldke ko ghurte rhti thi na chahte hue bhi maths class me wo mujhe bahut hi pareshan krta tha ye chiz… khud se nafrat hoti thi dusro ko uncomfortable feel kra k to mujhe aakhir me bio lena pda coz bio me ldkiya hi thi aur ldkiya k case me asa nii hota tha coz wo meri friends thi isliye… in maths class coz of peripheral vision OCD I couldn’t concentrate so I took bio and uske wajah se meri career line bigad gyi aur aaj ishi wajah se m depression me hu ki mujhe maths leke jee Krna tha but ab nii kr skti aur bio me mujhe kuch interest nhi h… my life becomes hell now… I have not path to live life…
Pranav @pranav888
I don’t agree with you where you said your life is like hell as what I can see is,
You are a living example and an inspiration for many on one should choose to do what he/she loves doing. And that’s a very strong message not just for teenage girls but also for anyone and everyone who somewhere or other fails to follow their passion. Do you realise how powerful your story is? It’s going to help a lot of them! You should be proud of yourself.
Pranav @pranav888
About your depression, you can always restart and begin your new life! You are just a decision away from doing that! If you need help then you can reach out to me.
I feel you lekin wo kahte hai na apke dost ka bhi dost hota hai isliye me share nhi krta kisi se bi
Oh… hn sahi bole… u can share any family member who is close to u…
Ab nhi kar sakte share jimedariyo ne hath tham liya hai 🙂
