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Sneha Naik @blissful_flag

Thoughts on chivalry ?? Boys, why don’t you’ll like being a gentleman??

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Ruskin @ruskin

Asking boys to be gentlemen is like asking a toddler to act as an adult…

things take time n time makes Man.

Sneha Naik @blissful_flag

Not even in 30s ?? Come on …

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Ruskin @ruskin

Growing up by the numbers and not experiences doesn’t make anyone intellectual or mature enough.

Sneha Naik @blissful_flag

Chivalry mostly needs sweetness, a sweet heart … that’s all. One need not know everything

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Ruskin @ruskin

Mass number of boys aren’t conditioned to be personified characters. They don’t even know what to chase, decide, or choose. Jo dekha vo sikh liya jo dekha vo ban gye jo dekha vo bol diya. Ye manly kbhi jiye hi nhi to manly behavior aayega kaise.

Sneha Naik @blissful_flag

Films mei toh Heros are most of the times sweet and protective of the woman. But all they see is Hollywood movies where the guys only have se_xxx on the first date. That’s all is what they are attracted to nowadays. Inko SRK ki tarah Banna hi nahi hai anymore.

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Anonymous

Idk if I am, but all I can say chivalry is dy ing

Sneha Naik @blissful_flag

Yeah… But I don’t understand why… Ultimately it’s a win win situation for boys if they behave gentlemanly instead of chappri or clingy etc… Girls like it. It’s so easy peasy. I think they don’t really fall for someone. They just like chasing.

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Anonymous

Actually what I feel is men are being stepped on who are a gentlemen now-a-days. They finish last and women have started liking bad boys so they’re trying to be bad, when they are not

Sneha Naik @blissful_flag

No I just asked one of my guy friends… So in turn he asked me … how would you like a guy to treat you on a date !? I obviously told about the basic etiquette…being soft spoken… Not cutting in between the conversation… Not looking at the phone all the time… being a good listener… etc etc …in the end when the conversation went on … He said… Don’t you like to come over and chill !?? That’s when it flashed to me…We lost gentlemen bcoz of this Chappri culture. Those men who treated women with respect are gone. Now all they want is babydoll who they can sleep with. and Obviously a man of such thoughts,cannot have gentleman vibes in him.

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anuj @anujvohra

You will find all kind of people. Are you talking any particular incident or in general what you have seen? There are lot of gentlemen out there. May be you have not met them, look around and meet more people, open your network. You will surely find decent human beings.

Sneha Naik @blissful_flag

Yeah I meant in general. And yes, there are gentleman here and there. But for some reason, they don’t date me. I give unapproachable vibes. Not intentionally. But it’s my fate I guess. Mostly they seek soft women. They might be finding me too strong to approach.

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anuj @anujvohra

Yes I can understand.

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