This past week I’ve felt very depressed. Awhile ago my parents found out about me being bi(they didn’t believe me but hoped I’d be with a boy still even though I have a girlfriend) there have been many things said to me about my gf or me being part of the LGBTQ, nothing good. I’ve also come to the conclusion I’m gay but I feel like a part in that could be from past experiences…For years I’ve tried asking my mother to get my hair cut short cause I truly hate it. I did at the beginning of the week without them knowing, decided that following morning I’d also officially come out as gay. But doing that threw my mother into a absolute fit saying I’m lying about being gay cause she’s seen my friends with even shorter haircuts and assumes I just want to fit in…they are trans. I never told them that bcz they are homophobic and I wanted to continue hanging out with them. She’s also said I’m only into girls because I don’t feel pretty enough to get a guy. But anyway, because of this she said no more dating. My gf doesn’t know yet and I don’t know how to feel. Trying to remind myself I have 1 yr left in this house but idk…Idk how to cope with all this and have had zero energy to do anything.
Shivay @shivay2595
Heyy. It’s so brave of you to come out to your parents.
See parents take time to understand these things because they are not used to these all this. Give yourself some time and slowly slowly talk to your parents. Make them read articles about LGBTQ and show them videos etc.
You are way too strong.
Keep on believing in yourself and loving yourself.
All the more power, love and peace to you ✨✨
Dev -Ume @ume_saruma
I love this comment… It totally made my day
Reporting you also made my day😊
Shivay @shivay2595
So glad that you are happy.
All the love to you. May you find the best girl who’ll love you all you can imagine. She’ll be with you and be your friend your lover your sister your mom. Because only a women can love truly and being in love with a girl you both are so lucky that you both can give pure form of love without any malice.
Dev -Ume @ume_saruma
You are so damn sweet😭💖
I hope for you to always be happy as well and find someone you really deserve 🤧😊
Shivay @shivay2595
Hahahaha. That’s not going to happen. You know na being true makes you a joke nowdays. People uses us like tissue paper. We are nothing for them they just wipe their negative emotions on us and then go find someone else
Dev -Ume @ume_saruma
BELEIVE IN YOURSELF!
Although you’re right…it’s really hard to find genuine people nowadays
But trust me, I know many who actually are I treasure them
Rspect to you girl
Like you’re really brave trying to explain it to your parents
Even I’m a part of the community but I can’t even think of sharing any of it with them ever 😅 even though I’m probably gonna spend my whole life with them
Whatever you are going through is probably the worst nightmare of every closeted person. Even I’m gay and i used to be scared as shit to let my parents find out. Now i got too tired to be scared all the time so I don’t pay much heed to that.
Remember that these things your parents are saying , don’t let them affect you. They are just trying to deny the fact
I’m with you . We all are with you. You said one year till you have to live with them so just let them say whatever they want and after that you’ll be free. If you ever want to talk I’ll be here
Dev -Ume @ume_saruma
I’m so sorry to hear that…
You can always talk to me, I’ll hear your out and help you out as much as I can
-Fellow lesbian😩💅🌈
yash khatri @yash777
Have faith in yourself😇😇😇😇
