This might seem trivial.
My cousin brother and I have a really good relation.he is 4 years older to me. We have so many happy memories. But only recently I came to know after he left from visiting me, from his brother, that he had been having issues about a girl and he was really going through a turmoil. And he didn’t say a word. Now I am doubting our relation. I’m feeling useless and helpless. I’m feeling angry that he couldn’t confide in me. I’m sad that he doesn’t consider me close enough for me to be able to cpnsole him. IKNOW that I’m being self centered but I’m really hurt. He was one of the few in my family to whom I am the closest. Now I think it was all in my mind. We are not at all close.