This guy really wants to annoy me like why in hell he kept texting me even we already exchanged gbyes like bro what’s the point nooow!! Ugh i wanna forget abt you and everything but you still there how am I supposed to get rid everything abt you jesus.

I have been in a kind of same scenario like u and then one day I got fed up and I was like f" it....and I blocked him. I chose mental peace.
Though I did unblock him after some days but he ultimately got the message.

Did u guys still together or nah just curious 

We did try talking after that but it wasn't like how it used to be...so we dont talk now.

I mean he’s a nice person it’s just that I can’t forget him bcz he’s still there ruining my ways of forgetting 

If you don't like him texting you straight away tell him to stop and give him reasons.He will eventually understand your situation but if he'll still text you imo block him.

Long Distance Relationship

my bf broke up w me, i already moved on, but idk, i just want to see if im weird.

i never believed in the relationship, and didnt put the say effort as he did. and during the whole relationship i wasnt sure that i liked him, i mean, i knew i liked him physically, but i wasnt sure that i liked liked him. so, there were some days before we broke up in which he ignored me. i even made a bet that he would dump me. so, when the time came, i asked him if we were done. and he said yes. idk why it affected me that much, i spent weeks without eating and all, even tho, i knew it was going to happen. am i weird?

Breakup

Him.. my bf proposed me on Nov, we had a online relationship, even though we're in the same school, he wants to keep it private, and he also told me not to appear or talk to him in real life because people can misunderstood, at first I thought it's fine, but now I think it's a bit fishy, why would he care about others opinions? He talks to many girls without hesitation but not me, and when I said I'll just pretend to be a friend infront him, he refused
At a point we only had a online relationship, he used to flirt with me and etc
But just after a month, he started to ignore me
I thought there must be going something serious so that's why he couldn't talk to me, but seriously, it's been 4 months since he stopped talking to me, at this point I really think something fishy is going on...
I don't even know what to do at this point.. am I being too obsessive?
He's also ignoring me at school... Plus.... The biggest plot twist is that my enemy is his BEST FRIEND
My enemy, she always likes to spread false information about me..
And people believe her 
So probably she could be a reason this is happening to me? Or probably I just misunderstood? 
What should I do...?


Boyfriend

i broke uo with a guy i thought was loml. he thought so too.. our relationship was amazing.. we both were very happy.. for 2 years, but in 2 months everything went down hill.. i was miserable when he broke up with me.. i was so heart broken.. i was dealing w it somehow.. i cant sleep for days, don't feel like talking to anyone, eat anything, I am miserable, and I thought he must be too.. but its just been a month and he posted an ig story w some other chick.. i wanna rip my heart out

I think I might be a little obsessed with a dude 5 years younger than me and maybe under my league. He’s kinda addictive. My friends wouldn’t understand because he’s not exactly the… “dreamy” or “charismatic” type.  He’s actually quite nerdy & socially awkward which I find adorable lol he’s very smart, hella funny and has a big heart. His affections are displayed a little differently, not in normal sentimental ways but he loves hard and is a big soft boi lol He’s also the “little bro” of the group, 19 & I’m 24. It would hurt to be mocked as a cougar especially for someone that young…I feel ashamed 😣 but I can’t control how my heart responds to him so I’ve been avoiding him lately to let the flames die out.

He told me he had feelings nearly 2 years ago but I didn’t see him that way then. this year I was forced to face the cold truth (I repeatedly denied for months) that I caught feelings for him a year later. But he’s made it clear he moved on already anyway so I see no point in admitting to it now. Sometimes I think..I want to wait for him. But other days I think…we probably wouldn’t work out anyway. Lately I’ve been focusing more on the ladder and keeping distance, while difficult, is something I think to be beneficial in the long run. Plus, I’m pretty convinced his heart has returned to the girl crushed on before me. She’s never been interested but he always goes back to her so 🤷🏾‍♀️ I’m not gonna fight that. Of all my guy friends, including those older than him AND me, I’ve never felt…as safe & comfortable to share deep chunks of my heart with any of my male friends the way I felt with him.

In some ways he’s mature for his age. I’m aware I romanticize those parts of him to ignore the parts lacking growth. We’re on two different planes mentally and I know I could never tell our friends because they’ll think somethings wrong with me lol they wouldn’t understand. It’s not like I want to like him and if I could remove these feelings manually I would. But idk how to stop them and I’ve been sitting on this for almost a year. it’s eating at me something terrible 😔

Crush

I loved a person more than 10 years... i trust him lot... but both parents doesn't like us due to community...  he started to force me for register marriage and we did register without parents in October... on that day itself my parents came to know and he left me in my home.,... now he sent court notice that I lived with him as husband and wife in his house for one month... i should reply him within one week.,. even we stay alone in separate home he can't leave without parents after one month he will leave me alone... while loving itself i know , he saying everything lie , if I ask he will divert me and start new problem... my parents said it's ur life u decide, we are not responsible after you lost your life by him... he tried to contact me during this 6 months but I not talked.,.. yesterday before his parents and him I said i don't like to live with you... he said hereafter I won't disturb you and believe you will come with me... after this both family is happy... i feel guilty... I loved him truly but he loved oly for that thing... my head says it's better to live him but my heart thinks of him and worries...wat can I do .... pls give suggestions and advise me,.

Depression

I love a guy , he say he also love me ...but whenever we are together ,he seems like he's bored ...but what can i do to make him feel nice , our relationship is like we want us ...or maybe i am the only one who want us , but he always says he love me , he wants me to be with him , but then act like he don't care about , like I don't exist ....we come into a relationship then we break up after 1 month , then we again come together and it's like 7-8 time breaking up and patching up ....idk what is this going on ....i don't want to loose him ...that's why I'm always here whenever he come back ....he don't appreciate my presence ....he says something and do something else...now a days i feel like he's ignoring me ..... whenever we call eachother we have nothing to talk about  .... it's like we just want to hear eachother ..but after that it looks like our relationship is dead ... it's so dry....i don't want to loose him ..(us) ..there is nothing so special in him...but i still want him....i tried many times ....it's like now I'm done trying to save our relationship... I'm so tired now ......what should I do .....how should I prevent this which I'm seeing coming ....i don't want it to happen .....idk ...what should I do now ...how should I focus on myself....i just can't .....i am not able to handle this pain again   :((((




Relationships

We were hanging out today and he got a message from a girl….

I talk with a guy everyday...like we share things about pur daily mundane life...I like to talk to him...as he never demands or say anything uncomfortable...we've been talking since months like 9 10 months...I know him from our college day but we never talked like this before...we became close after college...now the thing is....idk what is it between us!! I like him...but he had been in a bad phase because of his breakup...and he says that he could never be in a relationship...then why does he treats me well...behaves like he actually cares....understanding someone can be hard...like what is this even...he doesn't flirt with me either...but only talks with me time to time..ph god idk what to do

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