Things have been very hectic in my marriageā¦ I have been thinking about divorce for a very long timeā¦ And me and my husband have spoken about it a lotā¦ But lately we have both not been mentioning it even tho things are still going the wrong wayā¦
So for my husbandās birthday I planned a travel we have both been talking about before we got marriedā¦ I booked the flight tickets, then life happened my economy got hit before I had a chance to book the hotelā¦ Today I thought to myself that the best thing to do is probably to talk openly with my partner about it ( I know he was excited, I didnāt wanna make him sad but communication is key right?) so I was gonna ask him if he could just lend me half the moneyā¦ I didnāt even get a chance to explain myself he said ālet me guess, you donāt have money and now I have to pay for my own birthday travel huh? If you donāt have money donāt buy me gifts you canāt afford, I donāt need these travels and gifts you keep giving meā¦ Donāt wanna sound ungrateful but keep your moneyā
I feel so hurtā¦ And stupidā¦ He never really payed a travel for me or planned a surprise for meā¦ And here I am going out of my way to make him happy over and over again to hear ākeep your moneyāā¦ I am starting to wonder if I shouldnāt just go with a friendā¦ Cause how can I even enjoy the travel with him after what he saidā¦
I feel like if he meant this in a nice wayā¦ It just wasnāt the way nor the moment to express thisā¦
screamferocious... @happyme16
that was so rudeā¦
I think you should really divorce himā¦
Donāt step into it directly.
We donāt know the situation from other person what he is going through right. But he cannot be rude thatās true.
Plan something that is with in your budget.
There will be many solutions to a problem so donāt take wrong decision buddy
screamferocious... @happyme16
You do have a good point.
Sanket @sanket
Well if the financial situation is unbalanced then luxury such as vacation can be avoidedā¦
May b his economy too is hit and he was in tension wen u asked him the money?? Nayb thats y he reacted like though it was wrongā¦ He cudve said it in a better tone