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Anonymous

Things have been very hectic in my marriageā€¦ I have been thinking about divorce for a very long timeā€¦ And me and my husband have spoken about it a lotā€¦ But lately we have both not been mentioning it even tho things are still going the wrong wayā€¦

So for my husbandā€™s birthday I planned a travel we have both been talking about before we got marriedā€¦ I booked the flight tickets, then life happened my economy got hit before I had a chance to book the hotelā€¦ Today I thought to myself that the best thing to do is probably to talk openly with my partner about it ( I know he was excited, I didnā€™t wanna make him sad but communication is key right?) so I was gonna ask him if he could just lend me half the moneyā€¦ I didnā€™t even get a chance to explain myself he said ā€œlet me guess, you donā€™t have money and now I have to pay for my own birthday travel huh? If you donā€™t have money donā€™t buy me gifts you canā€™t afford, I donā€™t need these travels and gifts you keep giving meā€¦ Donā€™t wanna sound ungrateful but keep your moneyā€

I feel so hurtā€¦ And stupidā€¦ He never really payed a travel for me or planned a surprise for meā€¦ And here I am going out of my way to make him happy over and over again to hear ā€œkeep your moneyā€ā€¦ I am starting to wonder if I shouldnā€™t just go with a friendā€¦ Cause how can I even enjoy the travel with him after what he saidā€¦

I feel like if he meant this in a nice wayā€¦ It just wasnā€™t the way nor the moment to express thisā€¦

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screamferocious... @happyme16

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that was so rudeā€¦
I think you should really divorce himā€¦

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Anonymous
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Donā€™t step into it directly.
We donā€™t know the situation from other person what he is going through right. But he cannot be rude thatā€™s true.
Plan something that is with in your budget.
There will be many solutions to a problem so donā€™t take wrong decision buddy

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screamferocious... @happyme16

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You do have a good point.

Sanket @sanket

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Well if the financial situation is unbalanced then luxury such as vacation can be avoidedā€¦

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Anonymous
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May b his economy too is hit and he was in tension wen u asked him the money?? Nayb thats y he reacted like though it was wrongā€¦ He cudve said it in a better tone

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