theres a freshman thats crushing on me and i'm 16 and i'm a trans dude and he knows I'm trans and like- I'm a questioning aromantic and like i don't wanna hurt his feelings but like he's a freshman- and there's very obviously something wrong there- so like- what am i supposed to do?? i need advice

living sage

Coming out is super scary and can be really hard in India. Homophobia is a real issue and baby boomers are too stuck in their ways to actually change their outlook. So if you feel like you can’t come out to your loved ones, that’s ok. Families are hard to deal with. It’s not always easy to cut ties with them and coming out is a personal choice. If you feel like you really do need to come out to someone, seek out people who are already out. Share it with your peers whom you know will love you unconditionally. Maybe start easing your parents,etc. Into the idea of you being a member of the LGBTQA. You could send them new clippings or like vids about it. Be more vocal about how you feel about the community. They WILL come around, because ultimately they will care more about you than what others have to say about it and if you feel like they won’t. Then fuck it, they’re gonna die someday. Wait for their deathbeds. 

Relationships

Hi, I was raised in a religious household that views lgbtq+ as “wrong” As a result I am now married to a man but 💯 sure I’m a lesbian. I don’t know what to do. I’m young and I don’t want to be unhappy my whole life but I don’t want my family to look down on me. 

LGBTQ

I'm also demisexual, do any of y'all out there are in the same team as me?

Friends

Hey, i want to share something
It was weird to all
That is, 

A girl is telling me she love me. 
I am a girl
I don't have any opposition to LGBTQ 
But i don't like girls
She tells me i don't like boys so i will like girls 
The truth is i am not intersted in both boys and girls... I just want to live my life happily
I will see when i fall in love
But this girl is always telling me to accept her because i don't have any one
I tried telling her many times but she always announce herself as my girlfriend.. 
All believe it because my character behaviour, and style is like a boy
You know i like to be carefree but why all judge me for my own character, why they care. 
I don't care what others think Or discuss about me but my family is thinking like that too
They are telling me why don't you accept her? 
Mostly my mom she says you need a girlfriend for at your age of 25.
My brother too he says sis, don't think that's a taboo
I was like, what the hell are you talking. Can't i decide who i love and not? 
I want to tell i don't see gender in love. But i don't love at all
Can anyone understand that? 
Till now i didn't love anyone, i will not in future too
All say i am too tough, i am emotion less but truth is i just love myself. 
I faced many things but i am still confident about myself. I only love myself and my family.
What should i do? 



Confusion

Being gay and fem .How do I survive nit all boys hostel.

Body image

People keep on saying that I am gay, I am not gay but they won't just shut up and it is really annoying at this point. If there is anything that could help, please let me know.

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