There’s a difference between liking someone and loving them, you can like someone and still not be in love with them and vice versa. The reason why we don’t stand a chance is he likes me but he doesn’t love me and I love him but i don’t like him.
I can feel that, I also in similar condition tho. The thing is, are you currently have a chance to win his heart? To turn that “like” of his into “love”? Like, if he in a relationship with someone, then the answer is “no”
In my case it’s an on and off, we’ve never been in a relationship but it always felt like one, it’s been 5 years, he always turned me down by saying “I like you but I don’t love you” but we still had the same bond and now he’s with someone else right now. Guess he was right he didn’t love me, It was all in my head.
Then it’s a “no”. I just posted something like this because it also happen to me. People said, please stay friend with him (her in my case) but still try to move on. Find someone who will love you the way you love them, and if he (your current crush) someday want to be with you, and you still have the feeling, then you can accept him.
I gonna try to do that, so we on the same boat. Let’s do this together my friend😊
Now cheers to that