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there was this girl we were good friends and i kinda liked her and thought she liked me too…on april 27th my birthday (i know thisll sound silly… but) she didnt put a story wishing me but she wished many else and i lost my control and said some stupid stuff…and she wanted to end our friendship…she said she cant handle my bullshit and we should distance oursleves and still now she hasnt texted me back…and i just cant…i know im stupid and silly but im an highly sensitive dude…and i apologized many times…but still she doesnt text me …if i text her sometin she replies …usually she used to text me daily and tell me whats going on checkedup upon me…and i just cant…why cant people keep up with me … atleat i hope for a simgle person in my life who can cope with me…i tired evrything and still she isnt txting me back what do i do…

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Anonymous

Let me tell the truth she is gone and you have to stop texting her because now you are being needy “At least a single person in my life who can cope with me” in this sentence there is need of being love but truth is everybody wants love so bro you need to ask yourself why you need someone to love yourself…why you are not good enough…when you truly start love yourself only then people will also start loving you peace out…sorry for my bad english and my type of language

r

thanks but how do i love myself…i heard that a lot but idk what to do

I’m not blaming you but you have done stupid things…
I’ll tell my case I also put Status for everyone but can’t do it for everyone because there are families and relatives and I can’t put for everyone…

There might be some reason she didn’t story or post for your birthday but she wished you right…
You can’t always tell how a person was feeling and going in the mind…

It might had happened that she got too hurt that you said stupid things to her because she wasn’t expecting this level of immaturity from you…
Or maybe there were many things from before which she was not liking but didn’t told you but that day things got extreme and she just left…

Don’t disturb her for few days give her sometime or maybe write a long message confessing everything you want to say and just leave her for sometime
Maybe she will understand
All we can hope for the best

Anonymous

What ‘stupid stuff’ did you tell her? If I may ask

r

i was like why didnt u put a story for my bday…my bday was on the 27th and she put stories for others on the 30th…so u know 🤡…even my brothers didnt even wish we for my bday like not evn a single txt…one of my brother was at home with me and he never even wished me once…all that just made me sad and angry …lot of mixed emotion makes say really stupid things…

Anonymous

Take it easy… give her some time… sometimes we get excited… sometimes we get emotional… sometimes we feel happy and sometimes we feel sad… emotions describe who you are! And there might be some reason for her… give her some time and talk to her… Everything will be fine… Just breathe and take it easy…

r

u know its just that the amnt of love i received in my life till now (19 years) is quite low…just my mom and dad was the only ones who has been consistent…when she showed me signals that she kind of liked me i coudnt control my joy…i was the happiest person …like i finally have someone(i have never been in a relationship before) like she made me a happy person…my anxiety my depresion eveything was so close to zero…she made me a better person…i changed positively a lot…i used to express a lot of like rrly lot(if u r a overthnker u know that late replies kill you) so i even bothered her like that but at that time its okay she has no problem but when the said issue took place she said she wasnt happy at all with me being like that

Anonymous

Tbh you have to be understanding. You should understand that “putting up story for birthdays” is cliche. Everyone does that. And there maybe some reasons she didn’t do it for you. You already realised that you’ve done a stupid mistake so now just leave her alone for sometime and don’t bug her. Dude, as a girl I get really annoyed if a guy says stupid stuff. So if you don’t want to get blocked just leave her alone for sometime…if she really is your good friend, she’ll come back if she misses you. She personally wished you which should’ve been more convincing to you. At least she didn’t forget your birthday. And maybe she wasn’t so much invested with your friendship, so just move on. Indulge in something better, like watching Netflix or reading a book…

Anonymous

She is not worth you man … she is clearly chopping you off out of her life intentionally! Try divert your mind… and do not pay heed to her … trust me she ll come back