There was a boy who I met at a clg function then he started confessing his feelings again n again n I always take it as a jk cuz he also had some crushes for a while which he also told me but with time idk why but I started developing feelings for him but I never tell him then he asked me again so I said that I want to do the marriage so he talked to his close cousins n mom somehow about me but at the same time he is also doing flirt with a senior girl who is engaged. till yet we r not in any relationship but still I’m very confused is he really interested in me?
Probably not
Hey this happens with many guys out there. So I would advise you to just stay focused on whatever you are doing. And let it everything go with the flow. If he is meant to be there in your life he will be and if not some better guy surely will.
Thanks 🥺
Just give yourself time and focus on yourself. I know it’s hard to see someone you like and then see them someone else. Trust me I have been through this. Mine was a one-sided thing and I am still not over it. I still hope she felt the same way I did and I still do. But we can’t change someone. We can just wait until the right time.
Whenever I ask him he always says that he is very serious abt me stuffs but at the same time he also do flirt with other girls which he also tell by his own it’s know more than a year like best friends but things r now too confusing for me
Ritesh Bang @riteshbang19
Give time to yourself. Focus on other things. Stop focusing of him. I am saying this because if you keep giving attention to him. He will keep you as an option like “koi nai mili to ye to hai hi” this kinda thing. You understand it right, sooo stop giving him attention.
Yk what u r right cuz I’m also thinking the same way cuz most of time I listened to his things cuz somehow he is my best friend n sometimes I thanked God that I didn’t express my feelings to him n he is thinking that I’m taking him just a best friend so complicated life
Ritesh Bang @riteshbang19
Best friend are really a good part of life. But only few people are lucky enough to get into relationship and then get married to their best friends. I also have a best friend I love her a lot, but this time I won’t let out any kind of feelings for her, coz at the end I know the reply will be “I never thought about us in that sense, we are really good friends”. And this will break anyone’s heart.
Yes u r right u should tell her may be she also feel the same abt u but in my situation yk it now how toxic this situation is🥺
Ritesh Bang @riteshbang19
I don’t want to end up my friendship like the last one soo better not to 🙂
Ritesh Bang @riteshbang19
Nd about your situation just try to avoid him for a while if you can
Ok but I will pray that everything goes well for u n thanks for your advise
Ok 5 6 months?
Ritesh Bang @riteshbang19
Thanks for the prayers but I really don’t wanna express anything to anyone. I left everything on time. So as the quote “With great power, comes great responsibilities” that’s how “With right time, comes right person and situation”.
Ritesh Bang @riteshbang19
Well will you be able to hold it this long??
May be I will end my friendship with him cuz yk the worst part is when someone is expressing their feelings to u but at the same time flirting and hangout with an engaged girl who is not even single she is engaged
Ritesh Bang @riteshbang19
I would suggest you don’t end up anything coz at the end it will make you bad. Just ignore him and let him do the stuff. That I suppose will be a win win situation for you. You got rid of toxic people and won’t be called bad.
Yk what you r a gem person 🥺🥺
Ritesh Bang @riteshbang19
No no no I am just a ordinary human being with a broken heart and a lot of experience. I hope I have helped you. If you want any help you can connect with me here.
You helped me hell alot
Ritesh Bang @riteshbang19
Happy to help and see you smile ☺️
Seems like he is keeping his options open
Ok
