There is this one friend of mine whom i met 2-3 days back and he didn't texted me anything just it was nice today. I was in confusion like something must've happened or he felt awkward but I talked to him today about it he told me sorry that i made you feel like that and all but I'm still confused because he didn't asked me to meet up again. Am I thinking too much or is it okay? Should I let him go and act all cool ? 

well, I did open up to him but he did not respond like that we should do this again or not.  even I indirectly asked him to go out but he just didn't get the point.

I was the one who asked him out first to go out with me and I asked indirectly as well should I ask again? It's not like we are strangers I know him for the past 2-3 years.

yeah maybe i should just be cool and let him go 

Yeahh that is the point will he come or not? Like i asked I don't want to look like I'm the desperate one who wants to meet like if you like me or wanna meet do some efforts 

Should i wait for 1-2 days or ask him instantly? I guess give it some time maybe? Wdy think?

I have done nothing wrong it just we were in the moment when we met and did some things. That's why I'm hesitating a bit 

And don't want sound like a desperate person. Like we did this before too but it was like once in a year and he was always like we should do this I'm intrested in you in that way 

But when we did this before he was the one who always asked me if I wanted to do it or not. And also it was his idea to get a room instead of going to a restaurant and hang out there . 

Well i wrote everything now it is being unapproved thought 

Confusion

I'm in a 4year old relationship. Everything was fine for first 1.5 year then things started changing between us. He's still loyal and faithful but his puts no effort in this relationship. He says he loves me but his actions are opposite. How doesn't have time for me and there goes weeks when we don't even chat. He never calls. Even texts are rare. I have never expected anything more than his time. I have always given my 100% but I don't know what to do now. He's a nice person but when it comes to relationship it's like I don't exist for him. What should I do?

Love

Hey,  my boyfriend is feeling depressed recently.
Feeling void inside. He feels like stuck in life. He says, he miss me all the time but he don't feel like talking. He is saying things are not at all okay for him but i am sure he loves me so much. I dont know what happened to him. He was such a happy person. He feels like stuck with life.  What can i do to make him okay or feeling cared. I don't want him to feel lonely. Please tell me how can i help him get over this.



Depression

dirty,shattered,heartbroken
i had been in a healthy and happy relationship for a few years. I once did a huge mistake of cheating on him when i went to abroad. i confessed to him and he gave me 2nd chance and i never broke his trust again. all of it happened  approximately 2 years ago and we again developed a very strong bond. from past 3-4 months he has been behaving irrationally, accusing me of cheating again,checks who likes and comments on my pictures and all. i stopped talking to him completely. i contacted him after 10 days and whole time he accused me of doing unacceptable things. he was furious that i reacted love on a batchmate's picture,tried to prove that i don't react love on my other friends' picture but why him? last time i talked to that batchmate was in april but he thinks that something is going on behind his back. he did full criminal interrogation of me,asking me illogical and weird questions and kept saying that he loves me so much but i don't feel it anymore. he kept saying that i am a girl with no morals and i am too modern and i should be shameful for reacting love on a boy's picture. 
he was never like this before, i feel someone is manipulating him. i am scared that he is becoming obsessed with me. we are not compatible and happy with each other but he can't let me go. his behaviour has started reminding me of my previous partner. he was extremely abusive,obssessive who found pleasure in torturing me,threatening me. is there something wrong with me? i am really scared and broken

Emotional Abuse

how to get over someone who was never yours to have????

One Sided Love

I Have a quite friend since we were at elementary school, whenever he sees me alone he will always come to my side and ask me about myself or any other certain topic, he help me alot at school works and he always listen to me when i got problems or something to tell. I followed him here at private highschool cause i wanna see him improve and i always wanna be with him, he was my first friend and at highschool he became entirely different like he became so quite and only talk when its necessary or whenever i talk to him but if he someone tries to talk to him and he thinks it was idiotic he will just said i'm not interested w/o hesitation. At 8th Grade i became his classmate again and i always thought that he never had any problems or get through it easily, However i arrived one time earlier than usual and i saw him sitting alone and it was like he got problem and was about to cry, i approached him and he suddenly change his mood to somewhat happy and i knew that he was just acting happy and hurting inside. I cannot do anything for at that time i don't know how to really comfort others. A few months later after that day our teacher showed us a show about a guys Girlfriend died, and i look into his reaction and he was about to cry and his hands are shaking,after class that day i said to him "You're about to cry to the movie eh? Hahahha" and with a sad face he said "I cried for i know what that guy has felt for i've experienced the same pain he had" i saw a tears in his eyes and he looks like he wants to let his feelings out but he just held it.  2 years later Yesterday i saw him on his way to church alone i secretly followed him and i saw him light a candle, i tried to sneak up near to him and hide behind a car, after lighting the candle i heard him said "Happy birthday babe, i wish we could celebrate it together again like last time, there's alot of things i wanna tell you, my achievements, what's been happening to my life and more. I wanna say it all in front of you, i wanna hear your voice and hold your hand. There's alot more i wanna say to you, but this is all for now, Rest in peace and Happy Birthday" i can say that he was crying while saying that. I just hid into a car until he left. This morning i ask him, do you still love your gf who died, he said "Yes, i love her so much for she is the only girl behind my mom who accepted me for who i am and loved me so much. I know i gotta move on and find a new one but i plan to stay like this for a while." i'm like dang he even answered my next question. He changed the topic and later on he asked me to play games with him. The quite person really have experience alot of pain

Life

I broke up with my boyfriend a year ago and we have had zero contact since 10 months. Meanwhile i used to talk to my senior, he was very supportive and sweet. I kind of fell for him but we haven't had any contact since last 6 months. Now that i see my ex enjoying in college, i feel bad. Moreover i have heard that he was after a girl, i felt more bad. Although i don't wanna get back with him, or ever talk to him or see him because he was very abusive (both physical and emotional) and toxic with me.

Overthinking

I've never been prioritised, no one ever put me first, not my parents, not my friends, In one or other way everyone always made me feel like an outsider, For once I got a person who did give see me as a priority, and now he's away from me too. Without him I feel so alone, so empty, it's like he went away and he took the happiness with him. Now what I have left is hope, Hope of him coming back

3am Thoughts

He(ex) msged me today nd just said im sorry for the other day. I wanna meet you. I thought he will only ask me for money again, i told him I don't have much money rn. He said no i just wanna meet you. I gave him a bunch of reasons like you didn't meet me that day, you left like that nd that you broke my trust.... He replied a bit....then he said Ok your wish bye....He has not replied since then.... Should i not have pressured him that much like made him feel guilty? Or was i right?

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