There is this guy who was in my school but we never used to talk much. Now he's become wayy more hot, and he started talking to me. We started sharing everything with each other, our past relationships, and everything else. We soon started discovering that we have started liking each other. We also said I love you many times. I really started liking him, ignoring all the hurt of my past. But suddenly he stopped talking. Now he barely calls back or answers any texts. He's just..stopped conversing at all. I don't know what to do, I still see his pictures repeatedly, and I really like him. I'm helpless.

Don't give him importance over yourself. People are temporary, they leave when their work is done. 

Relationships

literally just downloaded this app to talk about this particular situation in my life right now. 
2 years ago this guy from my class reached out to me and we started talking. we became really good friends. even rn i can tell im the only person he talks to about everything in his life and same with me. we started hanging out often. and somehow one thing led to another and we hooked up. we didn't wanna lose each other so we stayed fwbs for a few months even tho i already had a tiny crush on him. he got hints of it and decided to bring up the topic. and i explained that i did have feelings for him. he said since i wanted he also wanted to try dating. we broke up a few days after tho because things were getting too intense for casual dating. a few days apart from eo we talked out about our situation and he decided to tell me that he loved me. we've been in a relationship for about 4 months now but ive always known it is going to end. we have a year of college left and i know things will change for us. even tho we've been in a relationship we've always talked about how it'll end one day and that makes me sad because i really do love him and he says he loves me. but why'd you put an expiration date to something that you're happy in or someone you love.  i just don't know what to do anymore

Boyfriend

My bf is in a different country and we have very extreme time zones ..we barely communicate and we fight most of time and thr reason for it being the same..
And he doesn't make effort to talk w me because he is always busy..when I ask he calls it settling down..and that he is taking time to adapt and that is why he ain't able to talk w me..
I feel so lonely and I really don't know what to do..to continue w the relationship or to move on with life..what shud I do???

3am Thoughts

Idk how I actually feel.. it's like I have a bf but because of his family issues he isn't able to like pay attention. Like I understand okaay I understand his issues support him listens to him but it's just just him right? I need someone too. I was on my periods and I just wanted him to just for a sec even ask me if I was doing good and did I take any meds or just that he was proud of me that I am strong to deal with it. But instead he didn't do anything and when his problems were sort he continued to talk on call when I was having severe cramps and when I told him this at night he was like ki i didn't asked him if he had done breakfast which he didn't. It's likee i listened to him whole day and he didn't cared abt me but himself and then i was blamed that I didn't ask him for food. Likee wowwwww. I fucking don't know what to do now because it's like the second time he has done the same sucking thing.

So, recently I figured out that there was no way that the person that I’m in love with has no chance of being interested in me. This looks complicated, but it is simple, especially for me. He is not interested. And then, I thought about ways to manipulate people around him, just to make him think a little more clearly. He already had a girlfriend, but as I stalked one of his friends with him, I learned that he uses her as a showoff prop. That may seem weird, and it kind of is. He wasn’t in love with her in the first place. So there might be a chance for me, right? Nope. This may be a never ending cycle. He has a lot of girls drooling all over him, when he decides to break up with one, he can quickly find another. All those good looking, cute, rich girls... I couldn’t be one of them. But I could pretend that I was one of them. Just like every other girl did. But then I thought, if he isn’t going to love me actually, wouldn’t all that effort go to waste? Considering that I’m quite ugly, and not rich enough to look *cute* with expensive stuff, and even if I was, still wouldn’t be as attractive, I accepted my fate. I am ugly. There is nothing else to do, other than not giving a shit about love. Really, I mean it. If you are lucky, guys are going to love you and if not, shame on you. This world is not fair, and it is neither my or his fault. So, at the end, I came to the conclusion that love itself isn’t meant for me. And somehow, it has nothing to do with a spesific person. Now, I know it. The next step is to actually acknowledge it and stop hoping that he will love me back one day. How can I make that proccess easier?

One Sided Love

I feel so lost
I had a relationship for 2 years with a guy I met in my office. We started talking and fell in love very quickly. First it was odd to me but I let that happen. I thought I fell in love with an amazing guy who will understand me and give me everything I wanted. I wanted him to become the man of my life. 
In the first week of our relationship he started acting insecure. Don't talk to him, that guy is not good. If I would deny his allegations he would shout and cry. Like I'm being dishonest or disloyal to the relationship. 
I started listening to him cut off all the friends from my life, stopped talking to people in my office totally isolated myself. 
After a year I've got to know about his lies. I always had doubts about him but the way he cried I thought I was over thinking. He lied about his another job he told me was doing on a contractual basis. 

Anxiety

Hi, I'm in love with my best friend but my best friend is already in a relationship for 2 years. My relationship with him is weird, its what i would usually do with people that I am in a romantic relationship with such as calling first thing in the morning, gaming all day and calling at night. I asked his why we call after a gaming session and its was because he likes it. (At this point i dont know what to think or do). We would literally spend every hour if we can on call (sometimes not even talking) or gaming. Sometimes when we game and I make him laugh, its like i fell for him over and over again. He is everything I have ever looked for in a guy :(. 

I respect his relationship with his gf and I would try and move on, believe me I TRIED. Part of me wants to tell him how i really feel but im afraid of losing him because no one else. The other part just wants to shove all my feelings in a box and continue to be his forever 'friend'. But his always asking me if im okay, im afraid that one day im going to snap and confess to him and just lose everything. I didn't know who I would turn and talk about him. He is my best friend. I tell him **almost everything**.

So how do you really get over someone?

Breakup

Why let him in my thoughts hurt? I have had a crush on this guy for the past 9 months....He had a pretty bad breakup and he isn't looking for any relationship....But on the other hand I fell from him so hard, he is just the way I always thought of one for me...I can't let him go of my mind...And he is pretty much close to his best friend, who is in love with him....I barely talk to him....I tried various things to move on...but he is my classmate, every time I see him I just fall for him....His charm is something that gets me on cloud nine....but things are hurting me now...I should stop my feelings for him...I have to stop my obsession for him....He did mock me 1 or 2 in front of everyone....but again I am gonna cherish him my whole life....He was the one who taught me what the butterflies in the stomach mean, to believe in love....Ya letting him go is one of the worst and best decisions I can make for myself....I don't wanna be selfish and just think about myself...I just don't know what to do.....

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