There is this guy who i used to be friends with. We treated each other like siblings. Then we just grew apart some things happened and he decided that we would be only classmates from here on and nothing more. We agreed to be on good terms for the sake of being classmates. Now he's still calling and video calling me texting me frequently. Don't y'all find this weird? I need to tell him to that not everything happens according to his whims and fancies. Whenever he likes he wants to talk to me treat me like a sister, decide that we are talking but we aren't in good terms decide that no we are just classmates nothing more. Naah. He doesn't get to pull the plug on everything. Am i wrong here? 

Life

Hi guys, I need suggestions! Can you define what's love? As a lover can we expect a boy to treat us to prioritise? Will they feel happy to introduce me as his love to his friends or they want to hide it from everyone and talk to all girls as single? I am recently committed to one boy, he doesn't let me to tell to my frnds that he loves me and he is being nice to all my female frnds. He says he won't love any other but I feel like the girls may feel attractive with him.  He used to say me don't get possessive. Is it my fault? If yes, how I should be. Tell me guys. I am a girl of 22 yrs. 

Crush

To start with , Ive been in a relationship with my senior at college. Its been two years for now.. it started off well, and was going on pretty well but then he kind of reduced talking, or didn't talk to me for an entire day..and when i spoke to him about it... Things got better! But it kept on repeating for a couple of times. He'd be fine after i tell him that so n so is happening, why is he distancing himself from me... 
Since this January.. things turned out be worse
Hes been treating me like i don't even exist in his life.. he's just been repling to my messages or answering the call , but is not initiating to do any of them , he's been going days without talking to me
But the  fact being hes really been a loving and caring person until this January... I have no idea wat happened suddenly! Other than his inconsistency in communication he's the best of a guy a girl could ever get! Im greatful to have him but his inconsistency does affect me!
So, Im extremely confused should i stay in or call it off!

Relationships

Boy is 26 year and girl is 24 year old
Boy is from california 
Girl is from Delhi 
Both are working in London
Every day they use to meet at coffee house and share single table with single cup of coffee for one hour...Today they also came on same time but didn't utter a single word even didn't take a cup of coffee. ,I asked any problem. .they said yes today only we came  to know that we both are real brother and sister when we went to take permission of our marriage from family. ...Our parents took divorce when we were 3 and 1 year old and settled at Delhi and california from Hyderabad and never met again and no communication at all....Oh my god what a blunder mistake we were going to do unknowingly. ....God help us.....

Exhausted

I broke up with my boyfriend today. I asked him if he wants to continue or should we break up. I sent that msg in the hope of some reassurance (cause I was insecure about few things) but instead he broke up with me. And it kind of hurts obv..like I still have feelings for him and I don't really know how to move on.

Boyfriend

Hi everybody!😁
How are you all doing? 

I am back with new Tags and would love to interact with those who agree or/and seek more understanding and help from me. 

I have gone through many thoughts and emotions the one thing which is common about RELATIONSHIPS is that you aren't able to handle it because of he/she dumped you which leads to having stress/anxiety/depression (whichever suits you the best) or have low Self-Esteem and want to end life/Self-harm/too much involved into your partner that you don't see life beyond that. ☹️

I would like to tell you something on this. Relationships are a part of your life, it doesn't mean its the end of your life or that you are any less. Its just that the time has come to move forward either with someone else(after a period of time) and rather than forcing yourself into it set free. Everyone isn't meant to be together. Understanding your partner takes a lot of efforts, getting caught and accepting mistake takes courage, being honest is important, expressing and communication are the 2 MOST important things for a relation to work for a long time. Compromising for someone who isn't worth it, a bad choice but loving yourself after a breakup and maintaining healthy mind and positivity is important.

So I met a guy last year on New Years. I believe that day he was physically attracted towards me and wanted to kiss.  But he didn't make a move because he knew the kind of relationships I look for and also didn't want our friendship to be affected.
When he drunk spoke to me this , I was very clear on not wanting to have a relationship at that point of time. Nevertheless , we continued to talk . There was a lot of efforts from him side initially and the least from my side. We used to talk for hours in the night.  Everything went on well for a month . Things started changing from his side after a month probably because he thought i am his type.I started getting attached to him and wanted him to spend more of his time with me. Possessiveness and everything came into picture ! The good part was , I was never open to him about the possessiveness and all. It was all happening internally .
 
Nowadays , I feel like people are more into casual relationship which is completely fine and not really judging anyone here ! I believe that's what we all need to keep reminding myself. When things started changing between us , I remember constantly blaming myself for it , saying I am not good enough , trying my best to go wayy beyond to keep him all happy ! Now I realised that I was not at fault at all. It was his feelings that faded away because we were never meant for each. 
But Sadly,  a part of me still wishes to get those old times back ! Honestly now its an on and off friendship. I am very sure he is completely over me . Call it ego or whatever. but ig now its time for me to get over him too. Whats the point of loving a person when you know he doesnt like you back. But like.  People say right , Everything happens for a good reason . I am glad this happened because some day It had to end . And I am not blaming anyone in my story because I did get to learn and realise a lot of things being with him . ❤️







3am Thoughts

The guy I'll date is 2 years younger than me ...i don't have any problem but will my indian parents be fine with it?

I've been thinking about this from a long time, that i love my boyfriend just because he loves me very much. But then the other day i feel like no there are more reasons for me to love him, but this specific reason is bigger than any other reason. Discussed this problem with him too and he was too supportive told me to take time and think and write down my thoughts. Just want to know are these kinda thoughts normal? Or it is a serious concern, would be a glad if anyone can help thanks.

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