There is this girl that I really like but I am not able to approach, I get scared, afraid. When we were young I didn't approach her because I thought that I am not financially independent and I have not personally, it would be just for fun. But today I think I am free on my foot but yet I am not able to approach to her and tell her my feelings......... every day I wish I could be with her but I am unable to.

Its just lack of self confidence from your side. I would simply suggest you start working on it and side by side initiate a conversation with her. 

Anxiety

Be a failure.

Approach the girl and get rejected. 

Post the video and get called an idiot. 

Start the business and watch people criticize your first moves.

Everyone else did it. You aren’t a special case.

Invest in your portfolio of failures until you can afford to succeed.


Life

I broke up with my girlfriend 2 years ago and I decided to look back now that I've matured, and keep myself liable with what I do. There were multiple things I'd change about what I did. Not because they were bad, but because I should've reached reached out to help her with what she is going through. She was not stable back when we were dating. She wasn't open to anyone but me mostly. When we started dating she made me her main source of happiness. I thought it was adorable but told her to make herself her own source of being happy. That was she doesn't need anyone to be happy but yourself. Fast forward to the breakup. She didn't communicate with me. She left me on delived or on open for a day and then she says something but I usually forgot since I forgave her, but I didn't this time. I felt like I was just being forgotten since she just didn't bother to take a minute of her day to say if she's busy or something. I'm sorry if that's too much to ask for, but I just want reassurance. (When I broke up with her I had the "I don't need anyone but me" mindset. Stupidest mindset to have.) I started thinking about her olut of nowhere for some reason. Made me think on my past mistakes and hoe I should apologize to her but I was afraid she wouldn't want to hear from me since she was the most loyal person anyone could ask for and I just left. I reached out and apologized. She said she forgives me but I think she should be mad at me. She said she wasn't and that were good. I've told her how she was and we  talked for a few minutes. (She obviously doesn't talk to me like we used to. Felt like we were strangers and that feeling hurts. I've decided to tell her how I felt. She said "I don't know what to say" I said "It's alright, you don't have to say anything" she said "But I feel like I should.." I told her that she shouldn't feel obligated to. That it's fine.  (Honestly of course I wanted her to say something. I just feel selfish to ask for a response when I'm the one that broke up with her. Conversation changed and I asked how she stopped missing what we 

Breakup

I Don't know what I have done wrong, I had breakup 4 yrs ago from 5 yrs of relationship whom I want to marry but due to family issue my girlfriend state of mind was so disturb emotionally so I let her go to fulfill her family wishes I was in so much of pain for almost a year lost my job then somehow I start to move on & was doing good but always felt lonely inside, then I found a friend from dating app who had same issue and we start talking like normal friends n get attached, one day she proposed me and I told her that I m broken & it's not good idea but she keep insisting and I also get attached to her, I tried to stop her doing wrong with her life and she promised me that she will fill my heart with love again and I fall for her, after 2 months I felt I'll due to my disc bulging problem and I was in high medication n steroids which gaves me mood swings with persistent pain over my shoulder back nad become very boring to her, one day we had argument as she was not giving me time always ignoring me and we had very bad argument.I felt sorry and expressed my self she start talking for days and again she started ignoring me, I was not allowed to call in time of need due to family restrictions n all. She was always busy with friends and others and gave me lil.time so I approach her to clarify that she wants to remain in relationship or not & she started blaming me I m possesive doubtful n all even on bdays n other occasion she never come to meet only text n all, Few days ago I told her to meet and she couldn't make it coz of college friends n all then we had nasty fight over call she started abusing me n I lost my control n I did the same, now we are seperated, I missed her but her life is all fun. What went wrong still haunts me now I m depressed and lost hope in relationship. Any one suggest me where I was wrong apart my reaction to her abusive language. I want peace of mind I don't want to hurt any girl & I m not that kind of person. But I always felt transparency, conversation, giving time to each other with trust is important for healthy relationship but she didn't understand me at all.
Thanks in advance pls advice or correct me here.

Depression

Hey guys im new here and i never thought that i’ll find an app like this and im not sure if it’s gonna help me with my situation but i needed to let this off my chest, anyway the truth is that i’ve been a happy person for years minding my business had a lot of friends a great job, good relationship with my family it was great, sure i had some bad days but who doesn’t lol so one day i meet this girl that we used to study together when we were kids tbh she was my first crush but circumstances made me move to an other city so we didn’t see nor talk to each other’s for 15 years long story short we met last year and we kinda clicked their was a great vibe a real connection, we started what we call this days a situationship because she had to go back to the states but she told me that she wasn’t sure and that she gonna try and make it work here truth be told she didn’t even try anyway we had a good thing going and i started falling hard for her even tho i wasn’t emotionally available at the time, i had hopes that she’s gonna stay because as i thought we had a special thing i thought she loved me, i’ve always pictured a future with her so i accepted things i never thought i’d do but did just because i loved her more than anything else(huge mistake), at the end things got ugly because she became really distant and told me that she was thinking things through so i gave her some space but apparently she was preparing herself for the breakup emotionally and at the end she left me by saying it is what it is and it’s not personal and that she didn’t owed me anything and that i was a great guy and that i deserve better you know the kind of bullshit, the usual stuff in movies bla bla bla so she asked me to be friends until our path cross again haha and she didn’t want to have a distance relationship neither go back with me if i come to the states even after a few months she said that we had to date first and that’s if she’s not in an other relationship by then so no promises, i couldn’t accept being friends cuz i loved her too much i tried tbh but it was so painful seeing her happy living her best life like i never existed and she used to share with me her day by snap even when i comment on her snaps no response pr she replied after hours or a day so so i told her that i couldn’t do it anymore and i stopped talking with her ever since for almost 4 months. During this period i lost everything, my job, my friends and my family because of my depression and anxiety it’s something i’ve never experienced before i’ve never thought that depression is a real thing until i lived it, after the new year eve i asked her bestie if she’s seeing someone because i had to move on so she said yes she’s back with her ex boyfriend that didn’t date for more than a year and that it was serious between them so i thought that will help me move on but it only made things worse cuz i almost killed myself that night (i don’t wanna go to details but it was a stupid move and i was drunk) so i wrote this hate msg telling her how a terrible person she is and told her to throw anything i gave her to remember me with and asked her to leave me alone and never contact me ever again after few days she tried to reach out saying that she was really hurt by what i said and that her bestie lied to me because she wanted to help me move on and that she was also suffering after the breakup doing hypnosis to move on. now im in a difficult situation because idk how to feel anymore idk who to trust idk what to do idk how to stop thinking about her like she never existed so i could get my shit together im on a lot of medication but it’s only making things worse all i want is my life back and i sware this is the last time i give someone the power to ruin my life through love . I know it’s a long text but i had to talk about it and say everything thanks for hearing me out whoever you are ❤️ 
Ps: if you guys have any tips to help me heal i will appreciate it .


Guys 😖 I don't know what's happening between me and my long distance gf!! She all the time go out with friends all the time n i told her is not looking good and still she goes out... And i never told her to don't go I just advice her being a bf is nit good all the time sometimes is okay you have to we have to but she never listen to me!! She make gave me a lots of excuse and go out still last time we had a problem that time she told me that she will maintain but the day she told me she keep on doing what she wants tooo still 😫😫😫 i dont know what to do??? Neither she give me a update where she is !! If sth happens, she is ready to be by her friends side!!! Rather then being byy side she always safe her friends plz guys can you guys gave me any advice m tried now 😔plz guys help me!! Everytime going out it doesn't look good know guys vat your not doing bad things!!! 

So about 3 months ago I proposed my crush who was my good friend but she denied by saying that I am wondering person but she doesn't feel the same and but I all always get a vibe she feels something for me but anyway I respect her descion so I am not saying to her about this but I am feeling so hurted every single day because I really love her and I am still not over her I can't stop thinking about her like we were together how will react and all this when I watch something realted to couple mean any happy moments I think of her and then realized we can be together which always made me cry I am crying almost every night from 3 months and I know I am running my life because it's okay 2 months left to college to get over and I haven't figured anything for me but this feeling hurt so good and moreover she agreed that she will not ruin our friendship but lately I am getting a feeling now she is ignoring me I messaged her after a month and we are having some nice conversation but on middle of the conversation she is ghosted me and I know people will say get over her there more girl in this world , focus on yourself but I already heard alot of this from people 🥲🥲 and this is the only girl I have ever liked in my 21 year of life  she was  genuinely the first girl I ever liked i sometimes feel I am worthless and though she is a Very nice girl she deserves the best maybe I was not the best maybe I am worthless


Lonely

met a girl on the net. talked to her for a few days or weeks maybe. i don't know her really well, i mean i do know a few important things about her. i started falling for her. she liked me too, but she was still freaked out because of her past. we kinda parted our ways. but i feel a very deep emotional connect with her. i kinda feel that she's the one i want. but we're not talking to each other. she keeps posting stories on social media, and they kinda hint about us sometimes. i know i can't reach her even if i want to. coz i feel she needs that time. i really really hope that she comes back one day. she likes me too, we shared moments. i didn't really disclose my personal biodata even after talking for so many days coz i have trust issues too. if she comes back this time, i want to tell everything about myself. i already expressed that i love her, but she was not really ready. she felt that something was missing. we parted ways saying that we learnt things from each other and were kinda fine. but i miss her. i really hope she texts me back. i totally feel that she's my soulmate. guys what do i do? i heard manifestation is a real thing, what's it? how do i try it? help me out. it's breaking me 

Love

Pretty down, my girl friend and I are in an open relationship, mostly do to the fact that she wants to explore and me willing to accept it because I love her. I just found out that she lied about a sexual encounter with others and I'm pretty heart broken about it. We've talked and she feels bad but i cant shake this empty feeling in my stomach. I want to make things work with her but I'm not sure how to move past this. Should I just go sleeping around ? Should I go explore as well ? I'm overwhelmed with emotions and I guess I found this site to help me vent a little. 

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