Vibhanshu @its_v
There is this girl at my gym whenever she comes to gym we usually end up talking friendly but, when she doesnβt I feel like I am in nomanβs land or more like a loner dispite I have friends who normally challange or motivate me but still this feeling continues need help in understanding whatβs going on & is this normal & what should I do ?
Bro look around, your motivation is not valid , thatβs why youβre facing this problem
Vibhanshu @its_v
Possibly you are right !!
. @dream11
You are overthinking about the situation. Maybe she just need someone to talk to or maybe she really want someone to care about her the signs will be shown in the future u just have to wait and observe and not react
Vibhanshu @its_v
Its been more like a month and we talked normally and exchanged our insta id. On insta I use to flirt with her and she was good with it means she enjoyed it and flirted back. But, now itβs been more then 2-3 days she isnβt texting back. Well I donβt keep check itβs random.
. @dream11
Well I guess u are just a side character in her life
Dude you are going to gym to make yourself healthy right??or just going there to look at her?
Vibhanshu @its_v
Joined for health purpose. But, does it mean itβs wrong to expect or get more.?
Bro if you canβt understand just go and say it directly then let her say what she feelss for you
Vibhanshu @its_v
I thought so but, wouldnβt it be too quick to do so, & even thought about what if I donβt I donβt want to end up in friend zone
Or else first try to be her best friend
Vibhanshu @its_v
How to do it? As ladko ko friends bana is easy but, how with women ?
Being friends with girls is also easy
